Learn to accept Criticism When it is Needed.

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Bangkok, Thailand
November 5, 2013 1:27am CST
Learn to accept Criticism When it is Needed If we have organized something and putting in our entire knowledge with spending a long preparation before its ready all out of our hearts, then we are very proud of it as we think it appears to have a successful effect and can see many happy faces around us. It makes our mood very well and cheerful , because we are also very pleased with the results until someone starts making comments and criticism which they will express certain things with an unbearable tone. At such a time it may dampen our confidence and is an annoying feeling throughout our body, causing us may want to respond aggressively but we have control over it and wonder why someone would do that to start the criticism, because of many will find it excellent and talk to their liking. While a person criticizes us in a few words, then our beautiful day turn into a catastrophic obstacle, at least we feel it that way. At such times it is so important to hear these criticisms and to realize that there are so many happy people around us and only one of them who start to complain. Because that person has a different view and by listening to his words can teach us something or we can explain why we have done it on this way. But we sure as there is a need and we accept his criticism as a lesson to learn from it and improve to apply for the next time. Or if that person that criticism us has misjudged us, we can take it as a lesson to learn how others think about certain things and then can make necessary adjustments to avoid criticism in the future Critics always see us from a different prospective, so we have to try and accept it, because it will be good for a long term benefit. I wish you a healthy life. Kindly Regards, Author Jan Jansen http://poems.easybranches.com/learn-to-accept-criticism-is-needed.html
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
5 Nov 13
When did you ever think you could write? Maybe you should do something else like make short tweets. Find another activity because you suck at this one. You should try making paragraphs and not start a sentence with a conjunction if you want to be a good writer. Thank you for writing this one. Please notice the tone of the critique above. The third sentence for example might be a mirror comment from the person. So they might think they “suck” as a writer and taking their frustration out on the other person. What the critique says might not be true. In realty I admire your articles and think you make good points. And thank you for making them but I have a question. How do we know it is always needed? But criticism is so often a product of someones elses problems or motivated to try to control the other person. Well written and thought provoking.
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• Bangkok, Thailand
5 Nov 13
Thanks so much for Your constructive comment on this poem
@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
5 Nov 13
@easybranches It is a study of mine as well. To understand constructive criticism when we see it and need it certainly works to our advantage. I humbly have to say separating the poor critiques from the good ones though is not always easy. Thank you for writing this one.
• Shanghai, China
6 Nov 13
That is the criticism motivates us to do better, though we may not feel good at first. Good lesson...
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• United States
6 Nov 13
A very good lesson. Beautiful picture.