To Hug Is The Best Cure Of Removing Misunderstanding Between Husband And Wife

Pretty nice post here!! and yes!! hug does magic!! but I don't agree with the fact that women do need to get married soon and men to get unmarried as long, I stand against it because I am married and I pretty much love the intimacy of my wife and herself along with me. There are times that we go against each other and thats when we need this hug to come back close. We have done this a couple of times when we were with 2 different points on a matter and this hug melts the problem easily - either i allow her with her point or she agrees with mine.

To the title, "To Hug Is The Best Cure of Removing Misunderstanding Between Husband and Wife"... Hug sure will be a big help. I have read somewhere that we human beings are very touchy species. When we are thankful, we give people a hand shake, a tap on the back, a friendly high five or of course a warm teddy bear hug. We always tend to at least touch the other person in our great appreciation of him. In the issues about misunderstanding between married couples, apart from hugging, it is vital that the couple share a good communication. Partners in life should be hand in hand in building their family together. Women, submit to their husbands and husbands must respect their wives and treat them as they would love themselves. Sometimes, the problem isn't actually the problem itself, but the pride... A husband and wife discussing money problems, suddenly they are out of the topic, discussing "capability of the father or mother to provide", instead of collectively coming up with certain plans to overcome the root problem, facing it as a team, as a couple., Pride gets in the way and eats the relationship up. It's not a matter who's wiser or better. I think it's about how they team up together so they could live a better life and raise kids that would contribute to a better community.

"It is a woman's business to get married as soon as possible,and a man's to keep unmarried as long as he can." Hmmm. Never thought of it that way. I guess I always thought 'marriage' was the final step in manhood (one reason I've always felt like 'a young man'--as grown-ups call younger boys--and not quite a 'full' man). "they know less & understand more." That's a truth I need to add to my life. I used to think of all knowledge as valid & fitting-together, so I would often take invalid knowledge and fit it in with the valid. Now I know I need her to throw out the invalid before I make my world-picture WRONG by fitting it in where it doesn't go. Hugging her helps me to do that. Let's me let go of all my "facts" and allow 'her' to pick out the ones that should remain true

This helped me maybe it can help someone else too

Hello, I think the discussion is worth debating. Talking on a neutral aspect of what you are trying to say, I would like to say that both are equally responsible for any kind of consequences. Hug is a master weapon to end up all the issues, I totally agree on that part though. Life teaches a lot, and that a lot depends on how you build up the trust and how you have dealt with the situations in your past. Trust, bond and feeling of loosing one plays key role in any relation. Bending of one just to save the relation also shows how good the bond must have been irrespective of any fault. I hope you are trying to get what I want to convey. Thank you.