my friend kissed me and said he loved me...bit he has a girlfriend

Dallas, Texas
October 13, 2014 4:40pm CST
My friend who I've only know for a year said he loved me the other night. I thought it was sweet and all, but he has a girlfriend. His girlfriend lives 4 hours away from him so he doesn't see her as much. He's known her for like 9 months I think. He's talks about her a lot, but I've never heard him say he loves her. To me she seems like a nice girl, I thought they were good together. My feelings for my friend are mutual I guess, I love him. I see us as being great friends but I don't see us as being together because there's some things about his personality, I just feel it won't work out. Last night he invited me to come hang out with him, we went to this bar. After an hour he was wasted and wouldn't stop touching me. I took him home and made sure he OK. Before I could leave, he was hugging me from behind saying wait I need to talk to you. He said I love you, I said it back thinking he ment it as a friend. He said no and got on his knees and said I mean I love you more than that . I said what about you girlfriend, he acted as if he forgot he had one. I asked him if he loved her he said he didn't know. He was holding my legs saying "please tell me you feel the same ". I didn't know what to say, I even tried to leave. But again he chased after me and he kissed me. I just pushed him away and left. All this morning he's been texting me asking if we can talk. I don't know how I feel about that.
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• Johannesburg, South Africa
12 Feb 15
That is treading on dangerous ground, Would love to know what happened? Are you guys now dating, still friends etc?