@mebold (230)
November 23, 2006 12:37pm CST
The problem withmany people is that any small thing betwenn themself an their lover, they result into divource, is this the right thing,for it baffles me?
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@ronita34 (3923)
• Canada
15 Jan 07
Well i believe that if two people decide that they love each other enough to get married than they should be able to work anything out. Marriage shouldm't be spontaneous it should be for love, honesty and devotion!
@kennyDee (121)
• South Africa
23 Nov 06
because pple marry for different reasons;money,fame,family wealth,beauty.But lasting marriage is the one that is based on true love.
@ladysun (635)
• United States
23 Nov 06
I concur. In all relationships we will experience in our lifetimes...there is an ebb and flow...oeaks and valleys...in my opnion...in times past...couples tended to ride out the adverse times and misfortunes...and that's how the relationship and the bind grew more and more strong between the two people. In current times, with the immediate gratification mentality so prevalant...at the ifrst sign of trouble, people are quick to jump ship. I heard a news story this past week about a famous couple who split up after only a very short marriage...the reason...she wanted some friends to stay at a house they owne while her friends home was undergoing renovations...he didnt want the friends staying in their home...they divorced over that....it's all just ludicrous
@icequeen (2841)
• Canada
23 Nov 06
No of course it's not right. Of course you are going to fight and have differences, but you have to remember why you got married in the first place. You have to work on any relationship and I think people forget that. If there are children then there is even more incentive to work it out....
@PatriciaL (2080)
• United States
23 Nov 06
Yeah, I totally agree with you. It seems that people give up way to easy. It's very sad and it's even worse when there are kids involved. :(