YOU CAN NOT GET RESPECT BY BEGGING / myLot

Moradabad, India

April 11, 2015 11:10am CST

First of all we will have to learn how to respect others by words and deeds.If you want that every person of the family should respect you and love you, you will have to pull on the responsibility of the family.If you respect the elderly people, they will bless you a lot. In your progress the blessings of your elderly people are also hidden.If you love the younger people, you will also be loved because respect begets respect and love begets love. If you want social respect, you have to use three words compulsorily, I am sorry, thank you and as you wish.The other important thing is social work. In the office never speak bitter words to others and obey with a smile.By force nobody can be respected.Respect under pressure is a small form of hatred.

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Echo

@EchoGong (4)

• Shenzhen, China

12 Apr 15

I can't agree with your opinion any more, begging will only make somebody disrespect you!

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Sunil Kumar Mishra

@sunilmishra7756 (4272)

• Moradabad, India

12 Apr 15

If you ask somebody for the respect, nobody will respect you.I mean to say is this , To be respected be respectable first. To be loved be lovable first.All rising to great places is by great works. Everybody has full right to be disagree with my opinion. Some persons who are born with silver spoon in their mouth, they can not understand how the greatness, respect and fame is earned because they get it easily without great deeds. Respect is nobody's right.We have no rights which anyone need respect. Thanks a lot.

Sunil Kumar Mishra

@sunilmishra7756 (4272)

• Moradabad, India

13 Apr 15

@EchoGong Thanks a lot for your support.

Echo

@EchoGong (4)

• Shenzhen, China

13 Apr 15

@sunilmishra7756 Thanks for your explaination and actually I fully support your opinion.

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kenny

@kennyhao (2)

• Fuzhou, China

14 Apr 15

Want others to respect you, you must first respect others

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Sunil Kumar Mishra

@sunilmishra7756 (4272)

• Moradabad, India

14 Apr 15

Respect is not bought or sold in the market.It is the thing that we learn from our elders. Thanks a lot.

dpk262006

@dpk262006 (58675)

• Delhi, India

13 Apr 15

You are right that we need to respect elders before we could expect our younger generation to respect us.

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Sunil Kumar Mishra

@sunilmishra7756 (4272)

• Moradabad, India

14 Apr 15

Thank you very much. In India,Generally brides keep veil after marriage, why not bridegrooms keep veil.Does a bride really respect by keeping veil? I think that the respect should be in the eyes, by keeping veil or by touching feet we do not really show the respect.

sunflower

@sunlflower (10)

• Shenzhen, China

13 Apr 15

we plant respect and we will get respect

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Sunil Kumar Mishra

@sunilmishra7756 (4272)

• Moradabad, India

13 Apr 15

Yes, you are right. As you so you will reap. Thanks a lot.

MARI AQUINO

@SICARU (1)

• Mexico

13 Apr 15

Hi, This is very interesting! Every day we can see how young people change the respect for other ways to get along with people around, I think that we must to show a smile instead of angry, specially at work, this can change our humor and give somebody else the example of who we are.

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Sunil Kumar Mishra

@sunilmishra7756 (4272)

• Moradabad, India

13 Apr 15

Yes, you are right.It is easy to make others weep but it is not easy to make others laugh.Nobody can escape from work, it depends upon us whether we do the work with smile or tears. It is a great job to unite your work and interest. Thanks a lot.

Mohammed Abdou Hassan

@kalilmu163 (3)

• Dubai, United Arab Emirates

13 Apr 15

"Respect under Pressure" is common in work places. when a junior staff is forced to respect his boss who is treating him / her with disrespect order to keep his / her job.

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maxiaoya

@yaya019 (21)

• Jilin, China

12 Apr 15

"If you want social respect, you have to use three words compulsorily, I am sorry, thank you and as you wish" . I'm a little confused about this ,can you explain it to me again? Thaks a lot !

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Sunil Kumar Mishra

@sunilmishra7756 (4272)

• Moradabad, India

12 Apr 15

I am sorry means to apologise for even a little mistake.If somebody helps you never forget to say thanks to him.If somebody does not listen to you or your good advice, say as you wish instead of fighting with him. These three sentences are like oil to a machine , that avoid many quarrels in practical life, so that the life may go smoothly. Thanks a lot.

liuxianguo

@diandian381 (4)

• Jinan, China

13 Apr 15

Support you, the novice report.

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Sunil Kumar Mishra

@sunilmishra7756 (4272)

• Moradabad, India

13 Apr 15

Thanks a lot.

ganesh kumar

@happyganesh7 (1)

• Visakhapatnam, India

13 Apr 15

main point is everything is depend on your own behaviour .as every one knows the quote " give respect and take respect", just like this if u want respect then u must give respect. 2nd is if u talk with people in polite manner with little smile then also u can get respect. those two things u can do only when u think the people surround u as ur own.

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djzhao

@djzhao627 (1)

• Suzhou, China

14 Apr 15

can't agree more,we must learn to respect others ,thank you

Sunil Kumar Mishra

@sunilmishra7756 (4272)

• Moradabad, India

14 Apr 15

Who will teach?It is in the blood.None teaches how to respect others. Thanks

Sunil Kumar Mishra

@sunilmishra7756 (4272)

• Moradabad, India

14 Apr 15

@writingunleashed Respect is nobody's exclusive right. A good boss is respected even after his retirement.A bad boss is respected till his retirement that too due to protocol. Thanks a lot.