The inconsiderate neighbor

@sacmom (14192)
United States
August 16, 2015 10:37pm CST
A long time ago, back when I was about 10 years old or so lol, I had a neighbor that wasn't very nice. Oh, who am I kidding? She was just plain rude! Although she lived on the next block, our backyards were back to back to one another. This neighbor had a peach tree. Part of it went over our side of the fence. My mom and I would pick the ones that were on our side. However, my mom and I started to notice that the peaches on the neighbor's side were not being collected... My mom was the type of woman who was generous and kindhearted and would help anyone whether they asked for it or not. I guess she thought that all the neighbors were the same way, because the next thing I knew, she wanted me to go with her to this neighbor's house so we could ask if we could get some peaches from this neighbor's side of the yard. Me being the kind of person that I was, didn't think it was such a good idea and found it rather odd. After all, we didn't even know this neighbor. Still, I ended up going with my mom. We reached the door and our neighbor opened it up. My mom explained to her who we were and asked if we could pick the peaches that were in her backyard. The neighbor said no, which was understandable. We were strangers, after all. So, my mom asked the neighbor if the neighbor would pick some for us. Heck, my mom even offered to pay her for them. Again, the neighbor said no, rather rudely I might add. She further claimed that she was going to be canning them. Oh, she did generously offer (insert sarcasm here) for us to pick the ones on our side of the fence. So we continued to do just that. Time passed by. Again we noticed that the peaches weren't being collected by the neighbor. They continued to fall off the tree. Some were even beginning to rot! Eventually, even more and more peaches fell and rotted. The neighbor lied...obviously! She was never planning on canning those peaches! My mom, who wasn't one to waste food, was pissed off at the neighbor for being lied to! So much so, that she actually wanted me to climb over the fence and go into the neighbor's yard! There was no way I was about to do that though! I didn't want to get in trouble! I did however use a ladder, stretched my body out really far and got as many peaches as I could, all without stepping foot inside the neighbor's yard. Looking back, I can't help but wonder. What in the world would possess a person to not only be rude, but to lie to a neighbor they just met? If it had been your peach tree, would you have reacted like that?
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@sofssu (23662)
18 Aug 15
I hate it when people waste food.. If they don't want to use the peaches themselves they could easily give them away to others.. selfishness and rudeness is all that comes to mind when you think of people like that. .
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• United States
17 Aug 15
Some people are just like that, no explanation can be given.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
17 Aug 15
That's a shame that some people are like that.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
18 Aug 15
@TexanTornado Well everyone is different, so we'll just leave it at that. lol
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• United States
18 Aug 15
@sacmom Yes, it really is a shame. I'm not sure why people are like that.
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
17 Aug 15
Our farm is full of fruit trees and we do not stop people from taking fruit.We can't use it all!
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
17 Aug 15
I'm glad to hear it. That is very kind of you @cynthiann!
@much2say (53909)
• Los Angeles, California
19 Aug 15
I know when the peaches get ripe, they all get ripe quickly, so you gotta pick 'em fast. I remember my boss brought in their loads of peaches because it would just go bad - better to give them to all of us than let them get wasted. There are times when our tangelo tree gets too much fruit - I don't mind if our neighbors pick them - in fact, we tell them to please help themselves!
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
19 Aug 15
Aw, that is very kind of you.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Aug 15
She was simply a selfish person . She would rather have them rot than give it to the neighbor who can make use of them . Such an enfuriating and rude person indeed.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
17 Aug 15
I agree. She had to be. Who else would do such a thing?
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• United States
17 Aug 15
I don't know other than what @SIMPLYD said, she was selfish and whether she was going to use the peaches or not, no one else was getting any.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
18 Aug 15
I somehow felt getting neighbours into their compound did not appeal to them not that what they did was right
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@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
21 Aug 15
heck no! I wouldn't have acted like that! Especially if someone offered to pick some of them for me! Or to pay for some.. But heck I would've shared! A shame to see them go to waste! If I was the neighbor that would be what would bug me! the waste.. I don't understand rudeness anyway!
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@Shellyann36 (11385)
• United States
19 Aug 15
Sounds as if she just wanted her privacy. Some people are picky over their privacy and some are just plain greedy as well.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
19 Aug 15
Maybe. She didn't have to be rude about it though. lol
@PatZAnthony (14752)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
25 Aug 15
Isn't it terrible how selfish some are? It would have just made sense for her to let you have the peaches.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
26 Aug 15
I agree, it's terribly selfish.