Miscarriage and ectopic pregnancies
By Amber Hovis
@hovis0711 (48)
August 26, 2015 11:26pm CST
Have you ever felt like you should be on one of those medical shows? Like "I Didn't know I was pregnant", "Mystery Diagnosis" or any of the others that are out there?
I have been through two experiences in which I knew something was wrong with my body but no one believed me. The first being that I didn't realize I was pregnant for almost 6 and 1/2 months and then having her only a month later do to complications. The second being that I got pregnant and was told I had a miscarriage, to only still be pregnant and finding out that it was possibly twins, to having to have my tube removed due to an aggressive mass (ectopic pregnancy) that they couldnt get rid of with the medicine.
I don't mind sharing the stories but I figured they could be used for a new post. I kind of hope to find people who went through similar situations so that I can make new friends, get advice and not feel so alone.
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@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
27 Aug 15
Yeah, I"d be the lady who couldn't stop getting pregnant no matter how hard I tried. Every form of birth control failed me. My husband got a vasectomy and I still had another child after that. I got an IUD and after that ended up with an ectopic. So now I have no tubes and so far that has been the only birth control that has worked for me! I have 5 kids including a set of twins, and have had 7 pregnancies.
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@hovis0711 (48)
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27 Aug 15
I only got pregnant after saying that I give up or that I dont want to have a kid with this guy attitude lol.. I like tricked my body. Sounds stupid, but I think it worked lol.
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@dashboardc33 (314)
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28 Aug 15
@hovis0711 It's funny how opposite bodies work sometimes isn't it?
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@dashboardc33 (314)
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28 Aug 15
Wow! You are a strong lady! I'm not sure I could be pregnant 7 times! I have 2 kids and it was really hard for me to be pregnant. Getting pregnant was easy, but going through each day, I was just miserable.
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@dashboardc33 (314)
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27 Aug 15
Wow. That is crazy not knowing you are pregnant. I'm not sure it would ever happen with me as I get morning sickness pretty quickly.
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@dashboardc33 (314)
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28 Aug 15
@hovis0711 That would be such a shock for me, I'm not sure what I would do. I am a planner so I don't even like the fact of not knowing whether I am having a boy or a girl. I just have to know. What a good surprise for you though! :)
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@hovis0711 (48)
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27 Aug 15
I did with my second kid, but my first nope... I went a full 6 and 1/2 months before anything happened. ITs like it took the doctor saying "Yeah, you are pregnant. VERY VERY pregnant", for my body to stop having periods and get all the normal pregnancy symptoms. This includes actually feeling her lol.
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@hovis0711 (48)
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28 Aug 15
@dashboardc33
HAHAHA I am the same way. My mom said itd be better for a baby to be a surprise but I dont like that idea. I wanna know what it is so that I can go buy all the cute stuff for him/her. The only thing I couldnt plan was the name because I had soooooo many for both of my girls and at the last second choose something that was not even on my list.
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@cgalavia (1436)
• Philippines
28 Aug 15
I have no problems with my pregnancies,only my auntie experience that ectopic pregnancy and she was terribly saddest she had lost it.
@hovis0711 (48)
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28 Aug 15
Thats how I felt. And if I hadnt asked them about how I was feeling, they never would have looked for it and it would have killed me too.
@hovis0711 (48)
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27 Aug 15
You "would" appreciate my posts? I am not sure what you mean lol. If people are interested I will write about both situations. Is that what you meant?
