Why Saying Goodbye is Always Painful

@missjahn (4574)
Philippines
August 30, 2015 7:52am CST
This is the hardest part and the most painful one in a relationship when it is about to end.I had enough but there is this one person I've known who penetrated my world. I thought it would last as we decided to tie the knot saying our vows, but due to some circumstances - I decided to end it. At first I do not want any commitment because for me, it is a tiring venture of conflicts and so much more. See, mending is my next step. As much as I am concerned - my main priorities are my family and my baby. And this discussion is for you, take care and God bless you. I said, if you need something - I am just a message away :) remember that.
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Karen Waterson
@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
30 Aug 15
I was married 35 years, and to have the rug pulled out from udner me was horrible The thing of it is, I was totally blindsided, as I never saw it coming. I didn't want to leave, but he didn't leave me any choice as he told me that we weren't compatible anymore. That really hurt, as I thought our marrieage was very happy. I guess I found out in a hurry that it wasn't. Now, that I have been divorced for 8 years, I have learned to cope with it, and it isn't so bad now at all.
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missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
30 Aug 15
I know how does it felt for I feel you. On the other hand, it was so courageous of you as you dealt that slope part of your life. Mostly, thus tough moments made us stronger. It is really apparent that it so hurtful at first, but sooner or later - time will help patching up things. So thanks for sharing :) it is highly appreciated. This is the thing that I love here in mylot
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Karen Waterson
@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
30 Aug 15
@missjahn Yea, me too, as we can tell our story, and there are some in here that can relate, and I like that too, as we aren't alone in this.
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missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
30 Aug 15
@rosekiss thanks. Time will come that I will overcome the loneliness inside :)
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Redva Kaurvaki
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
31 Aug 15
Good bye always painful. But you have to stay strong as time will heal. As you said your baby & family are your priorities, you may redirect all of your attention of feeling broken to spend more time and enjoy each moment with your family. It's not easy, but yes, you can.