Fidelity vs Temptation
By joygracia
@joygracia (1325)
Philippines
September 14, 2015 3:36pm CST
I just had my heartbreaks earlier last month but I'm just curious what most guys or most people would think why some chooses temptation over fidelity.
I myself chooses fidelity and remain faithful with most of my relationships and it damn hurt me a lot being shall I say "victimized" with infidelity.
Just want to know your thoughts guys. Would you choose temptation over Fidelity (true relationship)? I just wanna understand.
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@ZHVegas (248)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
14 Sep 15
I don't think there's such a thing as "temptation", there's just "Do I love my partner, or not?", everything lies in it, and that gives my answer.
I agree with all kinds of love(Heterosexual, Homosexual, Bisexual, and anything as long people are happy with their choice), but as soon as you "agree" to love someone and say that you will be there with that person, and only that person, temptation is not a choice, it's just a cowardly act, in my opinion.
I am not sure why there's a lot of people does that, I think maybe they are just weak and pitiful.
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@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
15 Sep 15
That's a good point Danilo. I actually have confusions about this stuff because its always the guy that does bad. I guess I can never understand it unless I try but I would never dare do those kind of stuff.
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@ZHVegas (248)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
15 Sep 15
@joygracia There's actually woman that also does that, If I remember well my aunt did that in the past? Not sure... But good to hear that you think like that, it's a problem that most man does that.
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@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
15 Sep 15
@ZHVegas Oh I mean my partner before does infidelity & stuff. I haven't experience being unfaithful yet. I guess I think It's never meant to be. This is the only reason I can think of for now.
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@gregario888 (1276)
• Aurangabad, India
15 Sep 15
Monogamy does become monotony at times! So if you find an attractive proposition, say at a bus stop, or the work place; then a man wouldn't be a fool, not to take things as far as they can go!
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@gregario888 (1276)
• Aurangabad, India
16 Sep 15
@joygracia If you need some change, then why the hell not go for it! no point in sulking about it, after all everyone has a few wild oats to sow.
@GreatMartin (23675)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
15 Sep 15
I do not believe in fidelity/being faithful! It is a physical attraction nothing more, nothing less!
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@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
15 Sep 15
I understand your point. I kind of feel the same thing right now.
