how to deal with the boyfriend and mom's relationship
By AA
@ACETY5 (174)
Guangzhou, China
September 22, 2015 8:34pm CST
date with my boyfriend almost a year and we meet each parents (he just met my mom,, my father still have no idea about our relationship), he ask me marry.
The traditional Mid-Autumn Festival is coming nd my boyfriend want to visit my parents,, but my mom said NO WAY,, I DON'T LIKE HIM , HIS PARENTS WERE DIVORCE,YOU WITH HIM WITHOUT HAPPIES.
Suddenly , i think a lot about the " married future" . am I really not happies with him? what should I do ? About married , I should listen to mom or follow my heart ( even i dont know what i am thinking about)
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@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
23 Sep 15
first of all , stop thinking about him as a boy friend and look at him as a husband ,
will he be a good one?
will he carry the responsibilities of marriage and taking care of you and him self along with any baby ?
look at him from this side and then you can see clearly , and try not to look at it with your heart , instead use you brain
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@ACETY5 (174)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Sep 15
yeah,, in China divorced is not a good thing . People will think even their family could not take care, these person are not well to set up any relationship. And it even means looser .
in the moden time, young people not care so much , life and follow heart is the most important thing in our opion
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@saurabhrmp (2283)
• Hyderabad, India
22 Dec 15
dont think bad about your parents. Your parents might be thinking something that's why he is saying about your boyfriend.
