If I know someone who is behaving bad what should I do ???
By Kevin Akash
@kevinakash (2084)
Sri Lanka
October 4, 2015 8:11am CST
This my conclusion on this fact.
I think we should not get angry with him. Unless we will miss the great opportunity in making him understand about his own life, because sometimes we may be the closest friend of him.
Just explain how to live righteously with the own society he is behaving with. Every time we meet him we should explain these facts to him on behalf of the whole society.
We should always explain how improper things and acts will result bad consequences.
This will surely soothe his soul and others' as well.
What do you think of this ????
If you think I'm correct please comment.
If you think there should be something to be added or modified please tell me that too.
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4 responses
@ria1606roy (2797)
• Kolkata, India
4 Oct 15
you can make him understand why his behaviour is so bothering, from another person's point of view. Tell him to change the way to look at his behaviour. This is the best way to make him understand.
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@ria1606roy (2797)
• Kolkata, India
4 Oct 15
@Marcyaz that is true. But if you keep trying to talk, at one point he'll give him. It depends on how much you want to solve his problem.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
4 Oct 15
@ria1606roy
He may or may not get it as some people never seem to get the point of anything.
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
4 Oct 15
This is a nice sentiment, however, some people do not like to be told what they should do and react very badly. That is my experience.
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@joylol (148)
• Austin, Texas
4 Oct 15
If someone is behaving bad, first try to ask them about how they are doing first.
Second, try to tell them about his behavior but quickly shift the subject to how you can relate to their behavior because of a certain event that occurred to you once. If you can't relate, tell them your trying. People usually soften up when you relate it to you and not to them in a harsh manner.
Third, tell him the bright side of the situation.
Fourth, now if he doesn't get the point of the conversation still ask him about how he views certain subjects and his character.
Fifth, tell him what you can do for him and what he can try to do. If you let him know your making an effort by thinking up ways to help, he might look up to you.
Sixth, if the problem with him is not resolved, leave him be. Some people are just like that.
Hope this helps. ^_^
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