marriage and pregnancy
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
9 responses
@JaneApril (334)
• Philippines
10 Oct 15
I do not think this still really matters.
Whatever that comes first, as long as we're taking responsibilities of our actions, there's no problem with it.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
10 Oct 15
Well said. Would you like to marry first or it doesn't make any difference to you? (Provided you are not married)
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
10 Oct 15
yes both a child an a marriage is a great responsability. sadly seems like people aren't paying the required atention to the family institution
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
9 Oct 15
Right course of action should be to marry first and thereafter get pregnant. If one gets pregnant before marriage, it not only looks odd (at least in our society) but could be embarrassing for parents of both the families, even if the couple is going to get married in near future.
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
9 Oct 15
yes society tends to be really judgmental in such aspects
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
9 Oct 15
@swissheart Yes. We're part of society so we should follow its norms .
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
9 Oct 15
@dpk262006 and what would the case be for you? does it have any importance?
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@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
10 Oct 15
It should be marriage first before pregnancy. But I got pregnant first before we get married. Either way, I can say that our love and relationship really bloomed and my husband became really responsible. So whichever is first, it depends on the people who are in the relationship and it depends on how they will handle their relationship.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
10 Oct 15
it great that you found such a wonderful man who took responsability and now makes you happy
@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
10 Oct 15
@swissheart He is my boyfriend for 8 years and my pregnancy refreshes our relationship. We are together now for almost 10 years and we are happy as God is the center of our relationship and our family.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
10 Oct 15
yes getting married out of love should be the main reason why you would decide to take such a step
@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
9 Oct 15
Well for ME personally I wanted to get married first, get a house and then have the child which luckily did happen for me in that order. But everyone does things their own way and I never judge. It's their life and sometimes things happen. Sometimes unexpected pregnancies happen or people just don't believe in marriage. Everyone is different.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
9 Oct 15
yes life happens and we shouldn't judge anyone else. I guess people should learn how to mind their own business
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@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
9 Oct 15
@swissheart Exactly. You are more than welcome to have an opinion for sure, but sometimes it can be ignorant lol. Best to keep it to yourselves at times.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
10 Oct 15
I am not judging anyone but I am just sticking to the principle that God himself has ordained. So it should be marriage first before going to bed with anyone and have babies. Society has reversed this principle but God never changed this. So, as a Christian, I stick to God's law.
@WillowHolmes (46)
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9 Oct 15
There doesn't seem to be an order any more, the majority of young couples with children aren't yet married, and a lot of them don't even seem to be together any more. I don't personally have a preference, but I am marrying my partner next year and we don't want children, the idea of one's children watching their parents get married to either each other or someone else however, seems odd.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
10 Oct 15
it's great that you share the same opinion in such important aspects of life
@softbabe44 (5816)
• Vancouver, Washington
9 Oct 15
marriage then pregnancy but thats not alot of whats going on now in this world its what is not planned but you can't put the blame on anybody its a learning tool
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
10 Oct 15
but how do you fell about getting married because a child is in the middle?
