Stop to talking badness of others ... / myLot

Indonesia

October 27, 2015 12:37am CST

When we talking or chatting with friends, we often unconsciously speak ill of those around us. This is a bad thing that we need to avoid. The more often we speak ill of others, the more bad anyway our hearts. Moreover, if we just talk about it and spread it so that more people know about it, while there is no intention of us to tell him/her or advise him/her to change it to get the better, it is a bad habit. Stop speak ill of others ... What do you think about this matter?

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4 responses

CodingCoffee

@GopherDanny (814)

• Philippines

27 Oct 15

I agree with you. In whatever circumstances or chance we have at talking with others, we should not speak ill of one another even if the person being talked about is not present. The saying what goes around, comes around is true. As we speak ill of others, others will speak ill of us as well. And if we are in the shoes of someone being spoken ill of, we would fill bad about it of course. That's why it's always nice to be kind, considerate and understanding, as it brings you closer to one another, and helps the heart be kinder as well. He he, Kudos~ :D

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srisahara

@srisahara (4508)

• Indonesia

27 Oct 15

Amazing...! You are really understand how bad talking about the badness of others. Having positive thinking about others, keep to be kind, considerate and understanding is the best way to keep a good relationship as well as make our heart more comfort. Thank you for your good respond. Have a nice day, friend...!

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Ria Roy

@ria1606roy (2797)

• Kolkata, India

28 Oct 15

I don't usually say bad about anyone, but if a person has really hurt me, and there's another one who asks about it, I don't like to lie either. Feels like I'm accepting what was done to me, which I wouldn't. That's when I tell the truth, but I don't exaggerate it like a gossip.

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srisahara

@srisahara (4508)

• Indonesia

28 Oct 15

I think, you do not talking about the badness others if you just share what is your feeling when a person hurt you. It is an expression of your feeling, it is okay. As long as you talk based on the reality. I am impressed on you, you are great. Thank you.

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Ria Roy

@ria1606roy (2797)

• Kolkata, India

28 Oct 15

@srisahara yes the reality should never be clouded by hatred or judgement. After all, who are we to talk? Maybe we all have done something to someone which the person didn't like or felt hurt. Thanks for those sweet words.

You are great too, and I love how you perceive the most primal of feelings in a human.