how would you know if your partner is cheating?

@algigs (49)
Naga City, Philippines
October 31, 2015 10:45pm CST
I'm still not sure if she really cheating on me. I already confront her yesterday and telling that there's no need to be worry about and she promised. But the doubts doesn't fade. I'm worry to happen it again. I don't know if she's telling the truth. I can't figure it out surely and continue looking for evidence. But then again, I still believe her. I don't want the 3 years to be wasted.
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@poehere (15126)
• French Polynesia
1 Nov 15
If she cheated before it might happen again but if you don't trust her it will happen again. It has to work both ways on this one. If you keep after her she might do it again because you keep blaming her for doing it. So be careful.
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@algigs (49)
• Naga City, Philippines
1 Nov 15
thanks for the advice, whatever I do, I'm still worried.
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@poehere (15126)
• French Polynesia
1 Nov 15
@algigs Yah most people are when this happens to them.
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@algigs (49)
• Naga City, Philippines
1 Nov 15
@poehere we can't please our mind to stop from thinking...
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
2 Nov 15
It is easy, man! Just take a week off from your job, then pretend to go to work but actually you play detective to your girlfriend. I did it when I was younger. I found out my second girlfriend was cheating on me. . . but here was the twist - - I was also cheating on her!
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@algigs (49)
• Naga City, Philippines
2 Nov 15
I tried it too before when I caught her cheating on me but I'm not contented. I want to be revealed it by me. thanks man
@kataomoi (708)
• Japan
1 Nov 15
If you are sure that she is cheating, I would say that it's time to end the relationship. But that's only if you're 100% sure she's cheating. You don't want to make any mistakes here because it'll break the relationship. I think trust is very important though. If you can't trust her any more, then maybe it's already over.
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@algigs (49)
• Naga City, Philippines
1 Nov 15
thank you for that, very much appreciated. I want to trust her over again and again. I'm not yet ready to lost her.