Should I give my granddaughter an allowance? Advice needed.

@marguicha (230350)
Chile
November 22, 2015 6:11pm CST
Today Carolina came for her Sunday literary workshop with me. As usual I asked whether she was hungry. Yes, she answered. Dis you eat any breakfast? No, she replied. So, while we were talking about different kinds of narrators, I got out some bread, then some cheese and finally some leftover meat and rice from yesterday. She devoured them. It seems to me that she is not eating properly. She didn´t have much time to cook during the year but she went to my daughter´s house for the weekend. But now, not only she doesn´t have much time because of her last examination defending her thesis, but also because she got a sickly kitten that needs her care. She told me today that the veterinarian was very expensive and that she had several genetic problems. I gathered that she is using the money she should be spending in eating on the kitten. Taday I filled her backpack with groceries from my pantry, but that will not help as the food I have is the kind that has to be prepared using a time she does not have. What do you think, friends? Should I give her some pocket money, so as to say? I know that my daughter has done a lot more than her share and the girl´s father help is to take her out to a restaurant once every 6 months to show her what a nice daddy he is. I need advice.
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@simone10 (54180)
• Louisville, Kentucky
23 Nov 15
I am a big softy when it comes to someone not having anything to eat. I just can't stand to think of someone going hungry. I would probably give her money if I could afford it.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
23 Nov 15
I don´t really know how hungry she is, but certainly she is spending part of her money she should use to eat on the kitten. And she is my granddaughter. So even if her mother will help her some more, I will also do it.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
23 Nov 15
The same as how I feel.
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@simone10 (54180)
• Louisville, Kentucky
26 Nov 15
@marguicha I would do the same thing. I would rather her have too much money than not enough. She has a very kind heart to care so much for the kitten.
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@amnabas (14877)
• Karachi, Pakistan
23 Nov 15
You should realize every aspect from every angel and then take your decision.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
23 Nov 15
@marguicha that is a very good move to make by talking to her mother and then the two of you decide.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
23 Nov 15
I asked the advise of my daughter (her mother) and we will both help her in a way that will not harm the girl´s pride.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
23 Nov 15
I personally would help her out because she is taking such good care of the kitten and not eating enough tells me she is a very kind and loving person.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
23 Nov 15
I just talked with my daughter because I did not want to do it without her approval. She will also help. We decided that I could have something for her pantry every Sunday when she comes to my home.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
23 Nov 15
@marguicha That is also a good idea and she will think it is just extras you have there, is that the idea.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
23 Nov 15
@Marcyaz Yes. I don´t want her to feel that sheis less independent because of what I give to her.
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