How to get your child to learn and live?

Philippines
November 26, 2015 4:06am CST
Have you ever found yourself in deep negotiations with your 2-year-old over something she wear? Have you taken the "walk of shame" out of the mall after your toddler threw a temper tantrum on the floor? I experienced it with toddler. Though she is a very sweet and loving kid she still have this terrible two's moment that sometimes its getting me to the end. Anyone out who can share their experience?
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
27 Nov 15
Yes, my 2 years old daughter also has a terrible moment in the mall. At that time, she want to pick up some of gift covers and want to play it like her toys in home. When I stop her, she crying while rolled on the floor of mall. I also feel shame. Finally, I bring her go away from the place while apologize to the shop keeper, I ignore her crying and go ahead....
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• Philippines
27 Nov 15
My daughter is like that too keep picking things and play like on her own house. And she get irritated when I said no. One time on the plane she wanted to play on the floor and she keeps crying till we take off...
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• Philippines
27 Nov 15
@srisahara yeah , a lot more patience needed. I always give her a hug every tine she is throwing tantrums and try to give her a reward when she behave sometimes works sometimes not. I dont go out without someone to accompany me It will be nightmare ...
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
27 Nov 15
@hlfbldmom It's really tense moments, I guess. I'm sure you feel uncomfortable with your daughter, but we can not do anything but be patient and continue to comfort her ...
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@birjudanak (14319)
• India
26 Nov 15
Its a good age of child where they do tok much naughty thing, some time outoff control and very difficult to stop them. But they are child and ver pitiable so I like to. Enjoy with them. My nephew is when 2 years old ar that time I mostly spend my time with him do lot of fun. He is very naughty and and remove clothes some time and throw it on me. He put everything in mouth what he take. But I never angry on him and when he cry I pick up and try to make him smile by doing funny thing. He is now 11 years but I still enjoy with him and he also.
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• Philippines
27 Nov 15
Its the terrible moment of toddlers. I do enjoy them but if it already too much I want her to learn. My daughter is very loving and sweet and caring but there are time she is out of control on evrything and being violent. But Im sure she will change as she grow up..
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• Philippines
27 Nov 15
@birjudanak I am enjoying while she is still this young coz time flies so fast and when she will be grown up we cant have this moment anymore.
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@birjudanak (14319)
• India
27 Nov 15
@hlfbldmom its happened child are always that kind of naughty while young but once grow and understand they will become mature.i hope you also enjoy and i just imagine that your girl also like you understanding everything.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
26 Nov 15
Some children are very naughty at very young age. My children passed that age still i recollect the memory they never do such things at the age of 2 or till the age of 2, (lol). It is difficult to handle small children when they are demanding too much.
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• Philippines
26 Nov 15
Lucky you with your kids Sreekala... Yeah very difficult ti handle especially on public place and they wont listen to you...
@zebra2222 (5269)
• United States
27 Nov 15
Went through that experience. It changes over time. Three will come soon enough.
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• Philippines
27 Nov 15
Yeah, im looking forward for her become 3, then she might behave a lil bit and she will understand more...
@moondebi (1199)
• Bangalore, India
27 Nov 15
I find it difficult to sustain the pestering of my younger son.
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• Philippines
27 Nov 15
More patience and understanding..They say that sometimes for us to win the fight for toddlers we have to lose the battle for one or two.
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@mehmal (63)
• India
26 Nov 15
Awie! Not yet married,so cant say .hehe
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• Philippines
26 Nov 15
Update us in the future if you already have mehmal..hehe
@mehmal (63)
• India
27 Nov 15
@hlfbldmom heheh...i will ;)
@kaka135 (14916)
• Malaysia
28 Nov 15
I always think these are very normal for a kid. I think most kids have different developmental challenges at different ages, and we, as mothers or parents, have lots to learn. 1. My 3yo girl is very choosy at clothes, I do not know why. I usually take out one or two clothes for her, if she doesn't want to wear those, I will just ask her to go and take one. At most, I will take out 3 clothes. Sometimes, I take out two clothes, and let her choose. Sometimes, she'd like to wear pajamas to the park. Since she is young, I do not really mind about this. I am thinking if the kid is wearing something not so suitable, it may be too cold or hot at that time, I just prepare another clothes and put them in my bag. 2. I do not really mind if my child throws tantrum in the public, unless it's a quiet place or it disturbs others, then I will just carry my child away, as I think this is normal for a very young child. If it's something I can offer, I'd offer to her. But, if it's something too demanding, and I just won't compromise, I will just let her sit or sleep down and cry, then after some time when she's tired, she's okay while I carry and comfort her. Of course, I gotta stay there with her and be next to her, and still be gentle. (Sometimes it's not easy, but when I am gentle, I find it's easier to handle the situation.) I didn't experience much of the mall's as I do not often bring my children to the mall. Even if we go, we don't spend long time, as children might get tired easily in the mall.