What is the reason for no or less responses?
By BirDan
@birjudanak (14320)
India
December 1, 2015 9:36am CST
here i show lots of people who try their best to put some interesting discussion to interact people but they not get to many responses for it,in this i also included.
why people not response on some of people,is there they not like discussion or they have problem with that person.
i also notice that if we response on someone discussion and with proper writing they even no like to comment on them and just negated.may be they have enough friend or else reason.while someone give response me then i give reply to all.
so anybody know exactly that what is reason behind it for no or less responses.??
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14 responses
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Dec 15
@birjudanak Yes, I have seen some posts where the comments were not replied upon by the mylotter . Though . it could be that the mylotter went busy with real life . In a day or two he could come back to answer them. 
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
2 Dec 15
you right they have to choose but if you response someone and comments someone then you expect reply from them,but they not do that sometime only like,if you like something it means its interesting for you and put some comments.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
2 Dec 15
@SIMPLYD yup they may be but some who daily online and interact with other but not with someone, so i decided that if i respond or comment to anyone discussion whom i not know or not follow then give them 3 chance if they still not want to interacting then i will not give reply again on any post or comments.
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@rocky1980 (530)
• Chandigarh, India
6 Dec 15
@birjudanak very very true. hard to beleive sometimes when someone just post good morning folks I am back and the response and comments begins to rain on him/her.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
6 Dec 15
@rocky1980 yes i also show more then 50 responses and those who has interesting topic then they got only 5 or less.its happened with lots of people.
@birjudanak (14320)
• India
2 Dec 15
yup if we have follower so we have good responses but what you think sat good morning is quality discussion or some discussion on success is quality discussion?
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@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
2 Dec 15
Sometimes it is the timing problem.
When you have a discussion started when hardly anyone is around, there is obviously no response.
Sometimes the culture is different, and the interests of users are different.
They may not have any interest in the politics of any country other than their own.
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@rocky1980 (530)
• Chandigarh, India
6 Dec 15
@scheng1 you really have observed the right thing. sometimes when we start a discussion we find no one around to give response. As we all do come from different countries, culture and backgrounds, so it's really hard to find our common interests.
@birjudanak (14320)
• India
2 Dec 15
yes i agree with you because if we take interest and feel its good topic then comments or responses,me also do same but while we give responses and thew then they not replay its not good.if i saw lots of people post where they are only few response even topic is good.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Dec 15
hi jabo I do the same thiing too I think we all tend to respond first to our old friends who joined with us b ut I tr y to co nnect withnew ones who have responded to m y posts too
@birjudanak (14320)
• India
6 Dec 15
@norcal you are right we not have to pay back every comments and reply but while do more then ten time to one person and not reply once its not good.but i said before its everyone opinion and we cant change anyone for our so its good what we like and let them to do they like.
@birjudanak (14320)
• India
1 Dec 15
yes me same who respond me or comment me then i will replay it till it become short like ok,thank you.so i respect them but some don't do anything even we response or comments on their post.
@birjudanak (14320)
• India
2 Dec 15
i am not talking about me but while i see other discussion then even they have good point in post but not get and someone just put good morning and 50 responses.so what all see while read discussion.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
2 Dec 15
@norcal may be you are right that means they doesn't need more or they just enough feel or its not give important to comments on other they not know.
@norcal (4890)
• Franklinton, North Carolina
2 Dec 15
@birjudanak some people have lots of friends they interact with, I think that helps a lot.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60684)
• Perth, Australia
6 Dec 15
I wonder the same thing some times but can be so many reasons. Maybe the post doesn't relate to them, they have no interest in the discussion, discussion was too long, got distracted by another discussion, too tired, busy. So many reasons.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
6 Dec 15
yes you give all reason is correct but what to do with those person who active daily and not reply on our respond or comments,and its not for ones but more then 10 times.
@birjudanak (14320)
• India
6 Dec 15
@VivaLaDani13 yes we cant do nothing so i unfollow that people who not given reply to me because they earn by our comments then they have to reply us.may be they have enough friends or enough earn.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60684)
• Perth, Australia
6 Dec 15
@birjudanak Not sure. Not really much we can do about that. :/
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
6 Dec 15
i also do same because if someone reply on our discussion or comments then its we have to reply them and not avoiding.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
2 Dec 15
yes you right but some one not give reply your comments and responses then what do because we like interesting and we comments on it and they not reply then whats problem,may be they not like us or they have not need to it because they have lots of follower.
@rocky1980 (530)
• Chandigarh, India
6 Dec 15
I wish I could give you some valuable suggestions on this, but I am myself trying to figure out formula. Despite the fact that all the senior members of the mylot including you have been kind to give me enough suggestions. Last night I was told to Go South. I figured out that I was told to leave the discussion. I have also started a new discussion with this title "Go South". Don't think I am promoting my own discussion. which I am literally obviously doing. If I figured out what actually pulls the crowd I'll share with you. Have a nice day.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
6 Dec 15
i have not much problem with discussion bu while we give responses someone then why they not reply even they are active and not for one time but more then 10 times.we not do that.
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@rocky1980 (530)
• Chandigarh, India
6 Dec 15
@birjudanak I myself trying to figure this out. yes I would like to add one more point that sometimes I feel like that here in Mylot community, there many micro communities exist, which are happy with commenting to each other's post.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
6 Dec 15
@rocky1980 its good thing to comments on each other post but while we get comments and responses then we also have to reply.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
2 Dec 15
I don't know either while some will just leave their discussions, and not comment to any responses. There is no rhyme or reason for it, but I do think that some get discouraged, becasue they aren't making in here what they thought they would, so they just decide that it isn't worth their time, and will just leave. Which leasves their discussions, with responses but no comments. I always comment back to all responses i get as well as those that take the time to comment back to me on others discussions.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
2 Dec 15
if someone give response to me or comments then definitely give reply till not complete it end till ok or nice etc word.but if you respond on someone post and they not reply you so what is the reason behind it. It is better to that person tell us that don't responses or comments to me i will not reply so its good because we not wast our time.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
2 Dec 15
@Hatley i just want to say that thing that if someone response us the we give reply something whatever we feel.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
2 Dec 15
yes but if like you will response only when you like that post or its make you interesting right?
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
1 Dec 15
some are just like and leave it,if you like then you have to comment or respond.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Dec 15
If I like a post I will comment always as im a writer and have an imagination and i can think of something to sayl. I do not maike excuses like so many do that they cou ld not add to it. thats horse p ucky we can alwa ys add a bit come on.
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@Susu1121 (180)
• Guangzhou, China
3 Dec 15
@birjudanak yeah. perhaps they have other things
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
3 Dec 15
yup you may right but if we responses on lots of post of one mylotter and they are available for daily still not reply.
@birjudanak (14320)
• India
2 Dec 15
yup it play role but lots of people here active daily and giving response and comments to other,but while we response then not get comments from that side.
