My ex current love

@T_gray (7780)
Salina, Kansas
December 4, 2015 4:06pm CST
Well I am not going to talk about it too much because I am hoping for the best, but in the past I have mentioned my current love (at the time) and the problems that her and I had. I had also mentioned that her and were not talking anymore. Well over the past few days her and I started talking again. I don't want to say right now weather or not it is going to good yet or not. I am going to say that I am not going to jump back into anything with her. I have made that clear to her as well. But I am going to spend some time with her this weekend to see how things go. It will be a casual visit and nothing more. We will have a lot of things to talk about that we haven't already talked about. I know a lot of people say that shes your ex for a reason and I've always agreed with that in the past, but a lot of me tells me that I need to see where this goes. Something tells me that its not done yet, or her and I can still manage a friendship out of it. Which ever, I need to investigate it further. I need to do a lot of soul searching and figure out whats in my heart......
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@kyrararen (601)
• Indonesia
5 Dec 15
oh I wish you all the best. it seems you want to think this much. yet probably you should let your self not overthink about it. I think it is ok if you don't set a goal regarding this.
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@T_gray (7780)
• Salina, Kansas
5 Dec 15
Maybe just go with the flow of things?
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• Indonesia
5 Dec 15
@T_gray exactly. well, to be exact, watch where your heart heads toward. have you seen someone else after you broke up?
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@T_gray (7780)
• Salina, Kansas
5 Dec 15
@kyrararen no it hasn't been long, maybe only a couple weeks since we broke up
@Lucky15 (34136)
• Philippines
5 Dec 15
Hoping you will see what your heart really needed more than wanted.
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@T_gray (7780)
• Salina, Kansas
5 Dec 15
I'm trying to figure out what's right. It's hard though
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@Lucky15 (34136)
• Philippines
5 Dec 15
@T_gray it maybe tough if we think it is tough actually. But i know you will. Take you time, don't rush things
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@Hatley (164232)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Dec 15
yes take it slow and do not rush it giving yourself time to find out how you really feel. sometime I think we tend to rush into something then regret because whatever was the problem before is still there.
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@T_gray (7780)
• Salina, Kansas
6 Dec 15
yes I understand what you are saying. I think we should address those problems that were there before as well. hopefully that will help too. might shine some light on things too
• Portugal
5 Dec 15
I think you made the right decision if you feel in your heart that things didnt end yet you need to figure out what you really want in your heart. So its great that you decided to spend your weekend with her. I really wish that you can be happy again and that you can solve things for the best
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@T_gray (7780)
• Salina, Kansas
5 Dec 15
:-) thanks. I'm hoping I'll be happy too.....So I'm hoping for the best. :-)
@makingpots (11920)
• United States
4 Dec 15
Good luck working through your feelings. Matters of the heart can be very difficult. Soul searching needed indeed.
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@T_gray (7780)
• Salina, Kansas
5 Dec 15
Thanks
@jaboUK (58872)
• United Kingdom
4 Dec 15
It sounds as if you still have strong feelings for her, I hope you work it out.
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@T_gray (7780)
• Salina, Kansas
5 Dec 15
There are differently feelings there, I need to work through them for sure
• Lenox, Georgia
4 Dec 15
It sounds like your really confused about everything with her. Take your time and figure out what's best for you both. I wish you the best of luck. =)
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@T_gray (7780)
• Salina, Kansas
5 Dec 15
Thanks for the luck. I will take my time. :-)