therapy or divorce?
By Elizabeth
@Poppylicious (11134)
United Kingdom
December 11, 2015 2:29am CST
I just spent the majority of my bus journey sitting next to a woman who was more than happy to air her laundry {it wasn't really dirty} in public. She was nattering on the phone to her friend Andrea, or maybe Angela. I was trying my hardest not to listen, but you know how it is ... the one-sided conversations of strangers are always too tempting, and sometimes much more interesting than other events going on in the vicinity.
This is what I learnt ... she's been married for thirty-three years to a man called Tom. They have two adult children, one of each sex. For the last ten years she's been considering leaving him; they've grown apart, they don't do anything together anymore and they barely talk. Just recently it came to a head and now her considerations are nearly decided. However, she thinks he may be depressed and will try to get him some help before she tells him she wants a divorce.
She's okay though. Don't worry, Andrea-Angela.
It was a very formal conversation, rather cold. Very depressing. And I don't think the idea of the funky wall clock as a Christmas present went down well.
People need to stop talking in front of me; I'm far too curious.
It's Friday! I'm in Costa with my latte, but now I must leave to meet MiL and Baby Niece for shopping time!
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5 responses
@Poppylicious (11134)
• United Kingdom
14 Dec 15
Next time you're in you must ask for one! But please take a photo of the barista's face when you do!
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
14 Dec 15
@Poppylicious That's very true, I wonder why they have to talk so loudly?
@Poppylicious (11134)
• United Kingdom
14 Dec 15
I deal with the annoyance by listening in. If they're willing to talk in very loud voices and invade my hearing space, then I'm allowed to listen. :)
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@owlwings (43897)
• Cambridge, England
11 Dec 15
It sounds as if you have the bones of a short story or afternoon drama here. It's the sort of thing I seem to hear in the doldrum hours on Radio 4 Extra (and possibly on Radio 4) written up so that there's a poignant 'theme' which tends to be revealed or resolved at the end of the story. Maybe, in this case, it would be that funky wall clock.
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@Poppylicious (11134)
• United Kingdom
14 Dec 15
Yes, I think the funky wall clock is quite possibly the star of this story. :)
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@41CombedaleRoad (5966)
• Greece
16 Dec 15
It is amazing what people are prepared to air in public. Last time I was in England this was a novelty to me because I could 'listen in'. I cannot understand Greek so although they are just as open here, maybe even more so, I learn very little from cell phone chats.
@Dragonairy1 (1722)
• Newcastle Upon Tyne, England
13 Dec 15
that's quite a depressing thing to have overheard, it never seems to be happy conversation we hear.
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@Poppylicious (11134)
• United Kingdom
14 Dec 15
We're probably more likely to listen in on conversations which are less than happy ... they're far more interesting!
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