Spotting the End of An Affair / myLot

Philippines

December 19, 2015 4:14am CST

They say that ending an affair is the hardest. Most of the time, men have their own different ways of ending an affair. At times they drop hints and hoping that we, women get the message loud and clear. But honestly, we just can’t! Or should I say even if they do drop the bomb, we pretend we do not hear it. However, there are really women who do not really get it so here are the common hints that guys usually give when they want to get out of the relationship. When can you say that Its time to say goodbye ?

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Boingboing

@boiboing (13147)

• Northampton, England

19 Dec 15

Women also end affairs too.

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (15932)

• Philippines

15 Jan 16

Its easier for a woman I guess.

cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (15932)

• Philippines

18 Jan 16

@boiboing You have a point. I never made clear of what an "affair" really is. Thanks for bringing it to my attention.

Boingboing

@boiboing (13147)

• Northampton, England

15 Jan 16

@cherigucchi When you say 'affair' do you mean one or both of them are married to somebody else or just a 'romance'? If it's a cheating affair then the time to say goodbye is about 30 seconds before you say hello. It will never end well.

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LK2018

@Letranknight2015 (52665)

• Philippines

19 Dec 15

Hello @cherigucchi did you experience this lately? or did some one you know happened something like this? I really don't know what to say on this , it seemed general to me. but maybe because Im a guy and didn't know how to end a relationship, except back in college were we had a mutual talk about putting an end to the relaitonship because i really did screw up.

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (15932)

• Philippines

15 Jan 16

It is a case to case basis. May be culture has something to do with it. Of course I also ahd some share of experiences in the past and its easy to spot the signs especially when the guy is not brave enough to face the situation and decided to just burst like a bubble.

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LK2018

@Letranknight2015 (52665)

• Philippines

16 Jan 16

@cherigucchi of course what i did was the right thing to do because she's now happily married with a kid.

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scheng1

@scheng1 (24649)

• Singapore

19 Dec 15

I think it depends on the circumstances, and the emotional of both parties. Many career women are strong emotionally, and they do not need a man at all. They are more likely to move on, and accept that a breakup is the eventual result.

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (15932)

• Philippines

15 Jan 16

I agree that it depends on the circumstances.