5 valid reasons not to get married before 25..!!!

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I have been thinking about it lately that why do people get married?? I mean its not a bad thing obviously but getting married before 25 is really something to think about. Well, i am not saying that those marriages do not work, they do and in exceptional cases they are at their best but more often i see couple with early marriages taking divorce later. I have gone through many relationship problems which are resulting into separation and here are some main reasons which i would like to share with you it might help you also.. 1. Maturity: for getting married obviously you should attain a mature age but apart from that what matters is your mental age.You should be enough mature to take a right decision which should not be influenced overly emotional state of mind. Yes, this may sound a bit too practical but you should be aware of the pros and the cons like what kind of adjustments you have to make and are you ready for them? and most importantly is the person worth taking the risk? 2.Changes: life changes every now and then but marriages are big change in your life. And after marriage not only your but your partner's life is also going to change may be the change will be minor but the question here is whether or not the changes suit your lifestyle at this early age. 3.Compatibility: do you suit each other? or can you both exist together without problems? every relationship has problem but they should not be that huge that they affect your relationship in such a way that takes away your happiness, your identity or anything which is important to you. 4.Respect: respect is the demand of every healthy relationship it must be both ways. You may have different opinions but you must respect the opinion of your partner also that includes not to foist your opinion on him/her. no matter how good a relationship is their are hard times also one may lose control but again there is a fine line between losing control and losing dignity and you should be aware of that. At young age one might avoid this problem but it may occur in future and at that time you might be not able to handle it. 5.Love and Happiness: they both come together, when you are in love you are automatically on happy mode there are sad times also but what i wanted to say is that your inner conscious should always be happy about the fact that no matter what the problem is you are with the right person and which makes you feel good. Initially in every relationship everything feels good which may fade away later and then you may realize that it was just attraction, here you should not follow the emotional track rather listen to your inner conscious. Getting married at an early stage of life without considering what you will have in future is nothing more than foolishness and selfishness. Foolishness because you ruined your life and selfishness because you ruined the life of the person once you loved. moreover, in my opinion one should enjoy his/her life to the fullest, fulfill all the dreams before marriage as marriage is a whole new chapter of life and its not about only one person its about the dreams and desires of both the partners which have to be achieved together. " No relationship is perfect but with efforts we can make them worth having with our right choices and acceptable compromises."