how to get pregnant

@dibz123 (136)
Ireland
January 8, 2016 9:56pm CST
Hi ive been trying to get pregnant for two years and a hakf now with no luck any usefull tips plz
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@Shiva49 (26273)
• Singapore
9 Jan 16
Not a doctor, but I would say staying calm and peaceful helps and not being overanxious - siva
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@dibz123 (136)
• Ireland
9 Jan 16
Thank u shiva for the advice x but thats it when pple say to u stay stress free and u will get pregnant but u really want its hard to stay calm a kid is all that comes in mind but still i will tru.
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@Shiva49 (26273)
• Singapore
9 Jan 16
@dibz123 We were told this for years when we were without a kid and that did create some storm, not calm! You can stay calm now as if the normal method does not work, there are other ways that doctors help to get pregnant. No one needs to be deprived of kids nowadays - siva
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@dibz123 (136)
• Ireland
9 Jan 16
@Shiva49 yes i knw doctor said go for an ivf but its sad that i have to fo that instead of normal way coz in the past everyone in my family had kids normal way well we r jus thinking about the ivf but i wabted to give another try to the normal way before the ivf so im waitig 5 months before i agree to go through ivf.
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• Manila, Philippines
10 Jan 16
Hi! I'm a new here in MyLot! I found your topic interesting. It took me 2 years to have a baby and I was 31 at that time. I never used any contraceptives but maybe doing "IT" constantly with my partner greatly helped. We do it everyday before and after work. I did it even do I'm so stressed because I want to have a baby. Also make sure you and you're partner get enough sleep and nutrition. The lack of making love and stress are the delaying factors of getting pregnant. And now I'm so happy with my son! I realized it took me so long to have one! Yet, I'm so blessed to be a mother now.
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• Manila, Philippines
10 Jan 16
I'm not so articulate on how to explain this. My mother have 6 kids. She told me maybe the reason she got pregnant easily because my father massaged her stomach often. It's like reflexology or we call it in the Phils. as "hilot". It's just a simple massage to bring back the "kabuhi" (colic, heartburn) into the correct position; I forgot the direction if it's in the right or left side of the stomach. It's may sound so funny. I never went to a Filipino hilot to get pregnant because it's hard to find a authentic or genuine "mananambal". So if I don't feel well especially in the stomach, my mom would just simply do the "hilot".
@dibz123 (136)
• Ireland
10 Jan 16
Aw thats so sweet x ill get my partner to massage my stomach too n pls you also pray for me a woman without a kid feels so incomplete