50 Red Long Stemmed Roses to Ex-Baby Mama....

By RayD
@Mbalie (316)
South Africa
January 11, 2016 9:26am CST
An unmarried couple were in a committed relationship for about 4 years and were living together. They decided to start a family and fell pregnant. While the lady was pregnant the man cheated on her. The lady found out during the last trimester of her pregnancy. She was devastated and heartbroken. She gave birth to a beautiful baby girl and after giving birth she decided to end the relationship and the man moved out. The guy continued dating the lady whom he was cheating with. Things seem to be getting serious with this new found love. Now the guy just recently sent his Ex-Baby Mama a bunch of 50 beautiful red long stemmed roses for no particular reason. The excuse is he just sent them to her because they are co-parents. Wow this boggles my mind. I wonder what is in this man"s mind. What was the thought process of his recent action. What do you think of this dilemma. As a woman how do you feel about this whole scenario? And why would a man send his Ex Red Roses while in a new relationship?
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• United States
11 Jan 16
I would find it suspect. I would be cautious for sure. But at the same time, I would not throw the roses away lolz
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@HomeBase (1153)
• United States
12 Jan 16
@Mbalie Men seem to be always doing something that baffles the female mind. It keeps things interesting I suppose.
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• United States
12 Jan 16
@Mbalie For sure RayD. I guess we will find out what is his motive.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
11 Jan 16
This man and his confusing ways.
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@DianneN (247204)
• United States
11 Jan 16
This gut is a cheating loser, and she should have nothing to do with him. I wonder if that is all he gave her? Does he provide financially, visit the child, etc???
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• Manila, Philippines
12 Jan 16
@DianneN, you were my friend from bubblews before. Nice to see you here again friend.
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@DianneN (247204)
• United States
11 Jan 16
@Mbalie I wouldn't take him back, but this amazing woman must need him at least financially.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
11 Jan 16
Yes he provides financially and spends time with his baby. I guess the grass was not green on the other side after all. He is probably regretting why he cheated on such an amazing woman.
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@HomeBase (1153)
• United States
12 Jan 16
50 long stemmed roses? Fifty?? I don't think I've ever seen that many long stemmed rosed in one place except in a flower shop where they sell flowers for a living. Men. They are very interesting creatures. I don't even know what to say about this other than the bottom line is he is going to have to be in his baby mama's life forever. For. Ev. Errrrr. This is only the beginning of the drama, especially if the baby's mama still loves him.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
12 Jan 16
drama and more drama
@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
11 Jan 16
I'm sure the woman would have more appreciated some money to help with the babies care.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
11 Jan 16
The guy is supporting his child 100%. There is no problem with child maintenance. Just these flowers that are suspect.
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@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
11 Jan 16
@Mbalie Oh I see, he wants her to take him back then I'm thinking.
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@DianneN (247204)
• United States
11 Jan 16
@Mbalie oh, I see now. Then he is cheating on his other girlfriend in my book!
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
12 Jan 16
Something is fishy. Why would he do that? Maybe he is looking for a back back into the house with things not going so well at the other end. Just be careful about his intentions since he has already cheated once.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
12 Jan 16
lol... yes something is amiss here.
• United States
12 Jan 16
I would not be ok with receiving roses from that guy. I have no respect for anyone who cheats. It sounds to me like this guy might be wanting to date both girls at once. I'd be staying away from him if it were me.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
12 Jan 16
True. A leopard never changes its spots.
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• United States
12 Jan 16
@Mbalie Very true
• United States
12 Jan 16
A player is always going to be a player. Maybe, his intentions is to keep his "baby mommy" still heads over heels on him even though he has a girlfriend. He still wants a special bond with his baby mommy.
• United States
12 Jan 16
Basically leading baby mama on!!
@Teep11 (7673)
• United States
11 Jan 16
That was a nice jester but the roses just won't due. Perhaps he needs to come up with something else. Well, it's up to the mother of his child whether she accepts that or not, I hope they figure it out.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
11 Jan 16
Relationships are so complicated sometimes.
@iamshane487 (1139)
• Manila, Philippines
12 Jan 16
Maybe because she was also the mother of his child. It's really hard to give trust to men when it comes to a relationship. The lesson we can get about this story is we should know a person well.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
12 Jan 16
Relationships are hard and when trust is broken it is very difficult to repair. There cannot be a relationship with no trust.
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
12 Jan 16
Because he's a cheating pig.