Not Allowed To Dislike
By jaishankar
@else34 (13515)
New Delhi, India
January 22, 2016 6:32am CST
On Mylot you may like a discussion you read.If you don't like it,you are free to leave it and move ahead.And if you leave it and move ahead,it does not necessarily mean you disliked the discussion.Your moving ahead may as well mean you have not read the discussion.
'Like' is eloquent,'dislike' is tacit.Does it mean here we are not allowed to hurt each other?
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@owlwings (43897)
• Cambridge, England
22 Jan 16
The very first paragraph of the Guidelines says "When in doubt, follow the Golden Rule!". If you don't know what "The Golden Rule" is, then that very phrase links to the Wikipedia article explaining that it is variously expressed as Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
Now, nobody likes to be hurt, so it follows that we should not hurt others (by 'disliking' or any other positive action designed to hurt others).
'Moving on', 'not liking' and otherwise ignoring a discussion and even responding to a discussion with information which disagrees with it or is clearly designed to correct rather than to abuse anyone is therefore allowed. If someone feels 'hurt' by such action (or inaction), they may appeal to the Moderator, @GoAskAlice, to arbitrate but it is very likely to be their own over-sensitivity or misunderstanding of the advice which is at fault, not the other person's insensitivity or intended abuse.
So, YES. We are NOT allowed to hurt each other here but that does not mean that people may not be hurt.
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
23 Jan 16
@owlwings,If I am strongly opposed to the matter raised in a discussion,I am free to express my disagreement,but it should not be rude criticism.Still if the initiator of the discussion is sensitive enough to feel hurt by it,then the respondent [ myself ] should not be blamed.
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@silvermist (19701)
• India
26 Jan 16
@else34 Already the ''block'' feature is being misused by some.We do not want a'' dislike '' feature added.
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@silvermist (19701)
• India
26 Jan 16
@else34 Yes,let there be positive interactions .No blocking at the drop of a hat.
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
26 Jan 16
@silvermist,You are right.I,too, don't like 'dislike' feature to be there.Let the positiveness of the site maintained.

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@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
22 Jan 16
The problem with dislikes is that some people use them to hurt another writer who may have made them upset. i once had it happen on another site the person wrote a post and i didn't like it. I felt that they really wrote a poorly written post. It was a hateful post one that would insite a problem with others and not only that the idiot filled it with no real punctuation it was like this.... You know what I mean... It pissed me off...this is just an attempt to cheat the system when you have nothing to say....and you would have disliked it too. I explained why I disliked it and the person got mad and disliked a ridiculous number of my posts. Which irked me because they did it to be spiteful.I told them thanks for boosting my earnings with all the dislikes.
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@valmnz (17095)
• New Zealand
23 Jan 16
Unfortunately I don't have enough faith in the human nature of some to believe a dislike button would not be grossly over-used, for the wrong reasons. It serves no purpose at all and would encourage 'naughtiness' and straight out maliciousness
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
23 Jan 16
yeah the whole point is be nice, but I dont think anyone takes a lack of a like personally, people use that function differently
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
23 Jan 16
@Jessicalynnt,I know,but lack of dislike button coincidentally seems symbolical.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
23 Jan 16
@else34 I guess one could see it that way, I use the like button as a way to tell if I commented, if I commented, I like it. fast way to check, it's not really a like or not thing with me, for the most part.
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 Jan 16
Why would you want to hurt someone. Doing so on purpose shows a lack of sensitivity on the part of the person commenting. People should always strive to be nice in the comments they leave.











