I Lost My Self-Worth
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (141905)
Philippines
January 22, 2016 9:34pm CST
I recently broke up with my partner. There are so many reasons why I need to decide in ending the relationship. The main reason, all the promises were broken and showed disinterest to anything I said. I felt that I wasted two-and-half years having the relationship with her. Frankly speaking, I lost my self-worth with the relationship. Basically, she controlled everything I had. I didn’t even function as an individual. I lost my close friends and all the activities I used to be totally shut down because of her. At present, I am starting to get back on my feet again. I am leaving all the painful sacrifices done these past few years with her.
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6 responses
@rahulvsmokiee (3110)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
23 Jan 16
I know how painful it is to break up a relation.; but i think you have done right thing my friend. There is no reason to continue such a relation anymore.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
23 Jan 16
@rahulvsmokiee Yes, my dear friend. There is no perfect world and pain from within is only temporary. It can heal by its own. I am starting to love myself now.
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@rahulvsmokiee (3110)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
23 Jan 16
@Shavkat My friend girls are mere ghosts who sucks our life after coming. ui think being single is good haha !
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
23 Jan 16
I can understand your situation pretty well.I had undergone the similar thing sometime back.It is damn painful but look always try to see the positive aspect of everything.In this,now you can rebuild your self worth and I'm sure you'll be able to build it very soon.Do whatever you used to do the most before her.Follow your passion to the utmost.Let all the pain and hurt go into your passion and just distract as much as you can.Everything will surely be fine soon.Don't worry.Everything happens for a reason that is good,never forget this.All the best my friend and we want our enthusiastic friend back soon.He'll be na?
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
23 Jan 16
@alchemistrx I will my dear friend. I don't like feeling so frustrated over something. It takes time, but I would be fine.
@allknowing (153529)
• India
24 Jan 16
I feel happy for you. Yes. No one should control others. You now have the time to get back and be yourself.
@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
23 Jan 16
My attitude is " if it's not for me then it's not for me" God has a better plan, it would take a little hurt away and it would take a little time to heal,
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
23 Jan 16
@louievill Thank you my dear friend. I really need that. I am sure it will be healed in time.
@Letranknight2015 (52665)
• Philippines
24 Jan 16
If she really loved you, she's love your friends too. being controlling is not a relationship, it's sharing your life together and work as a TEAM not taking over some one else's. For me, that's not love at all. Don't worry you will get there, do the things you lvoe to do again and start hanging out with friends that you know.
