A Woman Without Shame

@Shavkat (141906)
Philippines
February 1, 2016 1:45am CST
My house is at peace finally at this day. The tenants moved out from the building. It is a good thing that they decided to push themselves out with shame on their faces. I can’t even want to look at their poker faces. In the first place, they had disrespected my dearly mother. She had shown pure decency in handling the issues created by these inconsiderate people. There is a particular person that I really can’t imagine the woman who had also staying with three guys in the house. It is not also my own business, but the neighbors are so busy scrutinizing her. In my country, not all local people are broadminded on regards to live-in relationship especially the old folks. For the old folks think that a couple without marriage is a bad luck. In some point, there are so many circumstances that bad things happened within the premises since they moved in. I am not a believer on this since I am open with this kind of situation. But this particular woman showed no shame and I wonder what will be the notion of her parents about living with her boyfriend with the other two guys in one room. I just felt there is no decency and the pureness of a woman violated by her. In fact, they are not really a local in my city. They were living in the other side of the province. I am pretty sure, her parents are not aware of what she’s into. In some countries, this is acceptable that living together without the sanctity of marriage is fine. Besides, we are in the modern world now. But, living with the other guys in one room is not acceptable. It creates the talk of the town scenario in the community. At long last, they are moving out from the resident. The flying cheesy speculations are starting to gone by. In my opinion, this woman should overthink about her situation. Even if they had moved to a new place, the indescent lifestyle will be attached to her total being. It seems she lost respect to herself. What do you think about this? Are you open with such situation?
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@boiboing (13147)
• Northampton, England
1 Feb 16
I would suggest you take care not to judge the lives of others unless your own life is entirely perfect. Who knows why others live the way they do but it's not our place to judge them.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
1 Feb 16
@boiboing I didn't judge them. It was my neighbors. I don't mind the lives of other people. I have so many things to think than getting busy knowing these people.
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• Philippines
1 Feb 16
some people just don't want to mind their own business and wants to talk about some one elses. i just don't understand how this tenant caused to disrespect your mom? well, the good side is that you are free from these troubles. it's her business to what she does and how she will affect those people around her in the future.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
1 Feb 16
@Letranknight2015 She never greeted my mom. She never even say goodbye right before the moved out.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
1 Feb 16
@Letranknight2015 They asked help from my mom for them to stay. Since they don't have a place to stay. Then, she is really ungrateful after all the kindness given by my mom.
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• Philippines
1 Feb 16
@Shavkat phew! how did you get her to be your tenant in the first place
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@alchemistrx (2547)
• Philippines
1 Feb 16
It's their life, i wont go on their way. Let God be the judge of those people.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
1 Feb 16
@alchemistrx I do agree on that my dear friend. I just ignore these people since it is not my own business.
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@alchemistrx (2547)
• Philippines
1 Feb 16
It's their life, i wont go on their way. Let God be the judge of those people.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
2 Feb 16
Have you known if this girl is not a relative of the guys ?
@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
2 Feb 16
@SIMPLYD One of the guy is her boyfriend. The other two guys are their friends. That would be fine, I guess. But the wings of gossip circulate within the neighbors circle. For elders, the morality issue made them reacted so much.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
2 Feb 16
@Shavkat I agree that such a situation specially that she's a girl would indeed be a source of gossip. She should have avoided such situation . Maybe living with her boyfriend is okay but not with the two other guys in the house .
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
2 Feb 16
@SIMPLYD I agree on this. I cannot blame people perceived them that way. We are still have the conservative ways in our culture.
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