Unconditional Love / myLot

Ireland

March 3, 2016 10:15pm CST

Do you ever just look at your partner and think, "This person is so troublesome, but I still love him/her"? It happens to me all the time. Sometimes when I look at him while he's sleeping, I remember the small arguments we've had, his bad habits, everything he does that annoys me - but in the end I smile because I love him anyway. It makes me realise that despite the differences, we wholly accept each other. Even if we fight and sometimes unintentionally hurt each other, it doesn't get rid of the fact that deep within our hearts, we love and care for each other the most. What about you? Do you think the same way about your partner?

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8 responses

divi

@divssri (971)

• Bangalore, India

4 Mar 16

Yes my friend we get problem in our relation but its mean to we do not love our partner. Argument in relationship is very natural thing.

azrapa

@azrapa (63)

• Ireland

4 Mar 16

Yes, it's very natural, which is why I don't understand why a lot of couples break up just after a small fight or two. And it's usually not even about anything serious.

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divi

@divssri (971)

• Bangalore, India

4 Mar 16

@azrapa it's all depend on bonding my friend, if our bonding is strong so there is no effect on our relationship, it survived for a long period.

Kewkumber

@Ladypeace (2028)

• Singapore

4 Mar 16

Yes, especially when love is not about changing the other person but more of accommodating our differences. However. with certain personalities and in particular circumstances, some are willing to make positive changes for the better of everyone.

azrapa

@azrapa (63)

• Ireland

4 Mar 16

Exactly :) It basically works if both work together.

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Lee Ka

@kaka135 (14916)

• Malaysia

13 Mar 16

I don't, because my husband is not a troublesome person at all. My husband might think that.

Yes, I agree that with unconditional love, no matter how he is, no matter what the barriers are, you'll still strive to be together with him and still love him. You are just willing to help and support each other. It's really a blessing that we have found the partner we love them unconditionally.

Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (36588)

• Toccoa, Georgia

2 Apr 16

Yes, I think the exact same way about my husband.

crazyhorseladycx

@crazyhorseladycx (39515)

• United States

4 Mar 16

yepperz, there's times where he pushes my patience to the point'f near frayin'. but, i love him anyhow... though i don't always like his actions/demeanor.

azrapa

@azrapa (63)

• Ireland

4 Mar 16

Same, he somehow has the natural ability of getting to my nerves, but he does make up for it :)

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Whooshie

@whooshie (32)

• Philippines

5 Mar 16

The bad doings he have but despite of all those you still choose to love him. It's your decision. Just what other couples might feel as well.

Beatburn

@Beatburn (4287)

• Philippines

4 Mar 16

Love is acceptance. It also needs open communication. I have my flaws and I am willing or try to change if they will make the other person better. But it's a lifelong process.

Yuleima Gutierrez

@YuleimaVzla (1505)

• Maracaibo, Venezuela

4 Mar 16

I am 31, I am a single mother and I'll tell you something: People like me much love our comfort zone. It is that a marriage is to bear the good and bad of another person, and this right, just my thought is if something bothers me I can not be in the same place. I think being alone made me long to get used to that loneliness. Also I am divorced.