Is it Good to maintain friendship with your EX

@sonusd (1547)
India
March 5, 2016 10:52pm CST
I have been in relationship since last 4 year, but now we have broken up( there are some personal disturbance and ego problem among each other). But now she wants to be my god friend and I am already married 2 month back. I am confused if I do not maintain friendship then she might thought I am having a woman in my life so I am not getting touch with her, in other way we were having physical relation so I do not want to get caught in front of my wife, so I want to avoid her, as I have not yet told my wife about my past relation. What will you do in this case?
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@MGjhaud (23252)
• Philippines
6 Mar 16
sad that youre in that position. im friends with all of my exes (except one which is the last relationship). i prefer being friends with them, it feels good to be happily and peacefully moved on from a break up. relationship that went south takes time to heal. its better not to talk about it wit your current relationship. its better to avoid it for now if you're having hesitations. in your case, maybe in the future it'll come naturally. not that you'll insist it to your wife and make it an issue.
@sonusd (1547)
• India
6 Mar 16
@joy, is it easy to forget the ex( suppose you had physical with ex,is it possible to maintain only friendship with out any expectation from your ex now.
• United States
6 Mar 16
I would forget about my past - not maintain friendship with the ex and live happily with the woman you married and promised to love, etc.
@sonusd (1547)
• India
6 Mar 16
Thank you for your comments, but some time I am missing my past happiest moment, and some time searching the same in my wife. but I will take care of my wife than my ex.
@LeaPea2417 (36486)
• Toccoa, Georgia
6 Mar 16
I would end the relationship.