Mean people

So this actually gets me worried a lot. My father in law is a real meanie.. He has issues with his attitude and behavior and he's a handful and very difficult to deal with. He is also very labile and can talk incessantly throughout the day or night how he hates all of us. My mother in law said he got that from his dad.. Which got me thinking, whAt if a few years from now, i will learn my husband is the same?

@slayer08 we all tend to feel insecure and afraid of what would happen in the future. Sometimes people learn from others mistakes. Ur husband may be exactly the opposite of your in law. He may observe and see for himself and would not want to be anything like him. A lot of people see and learn. So don't worry. Speak to your husband regarding this. It is better to be open and discuss what's troubling you.

@cxndie thanks! we don't argue a lot and we always talk to each other, i guess you're right I am a bit scared because of what the future may bring..