love or arranged

India
March 15, 2016 2:57am CST
silly right.. but imporatant.. in todays world (young generation). v want our parents to change their minds (so called old generation). but r v really ready to accept the change... we say love marriages, having bf/gf is common n all... n many of us say my life, my choice, my wish.. but did u taught about your parents... n if u ask me i vl say... y dont parents understand me... n parents say.. y dont u understand us.. so wat is your opinion on this..??
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@yugocean (9963)
• India
15 Mar 16
Well, I never had a girlfriend, so I accepted as my parents' wishes. You have to trust your parents, your heart may take some wrong steps, but parents really loves you. I never involved myself in making girlfriend. By the way if your choice for your live partner is really pure, then she only have to win the trust of your parents. True love can do this, go ahead. Do not ruin your parents' happiness, and make them happy with your love.
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• India
15 Mar 16
ur answer is so sweet, simple n cute.. thank u for your opinion
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• Hyderabad, India
15 Mar 16
@elveeroy Hi! No it is'nt silly. Taking decisions about marriage is the most important thing in your life. And trust me, we've all gone through generation gap issues with our parents. So in situations like this, it's must that the parents and children sit down for a heart to heart talk. Convey each others expectations across. Mostly parents want their children to marry within the community and faith which is a good thing and children should inturn put across what they want in a prospective bride or groom. Assure them that if at all you choose a boy on your own it will also be according to their likes and if they choose someone then it should cater to your needs as well. When you build trust and communication bw parents and children, trust me it's half the battle won. Finding a right mate is a blessing. Pray for your guy right from this very moment. Whoever he is or wherever he is. And when you choose, make sure you can be friends with that person. You can be your maddest, craziest self with that person. A relation based on realistic values plus God's grace will stay strong against all odds. Good luck.
• Hyderabad, India
15 Mar 16
@elveeroy I'm glad, I was helpful. God bless
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• India
16 Mar 16
@Sherlymbejoy thank u.. for your best wishes... n best wishes fr u too.. from my side..
• India
15 Mar 16
thank u so much @Sherlymbejoy... it helped me rally alot... thanku so very much..
@Shavkat (139249)
• Philippines
15 Mar 16
If you love someone, then follow your heart. If someone look for your love, then you will suffer forever.
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• India
15 Mar 16
but.. we hav love here.. parents love n partners love... which would u prefer?
@cacay1 (83319)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Mar 16
Parents are over protective of their children and they are always right.
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• India
15 Mar 16
hmm yp.. i agree.. but some times... those decisions are totally opposite to wat v think..