I Called the Police
@just4him (323168)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
March 21, 2016 3:14pm CST
You know it's been coming to this if you've read any of my posts regarding my older son.
He got totally out of hand as soon as I got home. I had been babysitting this morning, and as soon as I got home he started going off on me about the fact he couldn't get any sleep last night and needed to work this morning.
I told him I was calling the police, and did so. He's gone, and I'm still shaking. I don't know what's going to happen next, but I'm sure I'll find out. The police did say there was a warrant out for him, which I didn't know about.
His parting words were "This isn't done." Yes, I'm scared.
So that was the last half hour. Now I'm going to relax or try to and read notifications and interact with you.
I hope your day is going well. Mine was until I got home, but more about that later.
Thanks for reading.
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22 responses
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Mar 16
The peace that is filling my home right now is overwhelming. I love it. I wish though it could have come in a better way.
I don't know what's going to happen now. He still has all his stuff here, and he didn't take his glasses with him, that he needs.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
21 Mar 16
I hope he can have a positive change after this incident
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Mar 16
I don't know. I didn't know there was a warrant out for him when I called the police because he refused to leave my home and got very belligerent. Yelling enough that when I was talking to the police dispatch woman, she didn't need to ask a lot of questions about why, she could hear him yelling at me.
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
22 Mar 16
I hope they can find him and keep him away from you.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 Mar 16
@fishtiger58 He's never broken in, so just keeping the door locked is enough.
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
23 Mar 16
@just4him Time to change the locks
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i hope youre feeling a bit relax by now. yes, you mentioned to me about your relationship with your first child. im hoping it wont happen again. stay safe..
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Mar 16
It is. I'm sorry it happened too. I was hoping it wouldn't come to this.
@maezee (41985)
• United States
23 Mar 16
My goodness. I am glad you are safe after this - it sounds very scary. Have you considered getting a No Contact Order or Order for Protection? Is he ever violent with you? People should never have to deal with their family acting like this,I am sorry yoi have to. Hopefully jail will be a wake up call for him.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 Mar 16
I've had him on restraining orders before. He didn't get physical this time, so I'm not going to do that. Jail hasn't helped him in the past, but you never know. It could this time.
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Mar 16
I would hope so, but not likely, unless this does really change him this time.
@Carmelanirel2 (8085)
• United States
22 Mar 16
No, I haven't read about your son, are you safe? I don't know who all lives with you, but I hope you are not alone.
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@Carmelanirel2 (8085)
• United States
22 Mar 16
@just4him Oh, that's good. Sorry you are going through this, I pray your son turns around soon.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Mar 16
@Carmelanirel2 Thank you. I know this is only temporary, I just wish his anger wasn't. He's had anger issues all his life and it has caused a lot of trouble for me.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
22 Mar 16
hmm, if he needs to sleep, and being your home, if he has complaints he can take himself elsewhere, I'd think it's time to say no again. Surely he is better from his surgery
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@Letranknight2015 (52665)
• Philippines
22 Mar 16
Im sorry. I haven't been into your post lately. I mean what the hell happened to him? how could he treat you this way? If it wasn't for you, he wouldn't even exist in the first place. so ungrateful i tell yah. maybe he should just move out and handle things on his own.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Mar 16
He's gone and he won't be coming back except to pick up his things, which I just packed up. He has always treated me this way and worse. I've had him on restraining orders in the past.
@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
22 Mar 16
Oohhh valerie... that must have been difficult and unpleasant for you...., I hope you manage to relax a bit now ..while interacting on here.....
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Mar 16
It's been coming to a head for a while now. He still needs to get the rest of his belongings.
@WilmaHenry54 (360)
• Stanton, Kentucky
22 Mar 16
I'm glad you finally have some peace, am praying for you. I'm glad to be in touch with you again.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Mar 16
Thank you. I can really use the prayers. I don't know what's going to happen going forward.
