What difference does a name make?

March 30, 2016 5:25pm CST
We've all heard the Shakespearean line of "A rose by any other name would smell as sweet". Meaning, no matter what name someone or something has does not change how they are. However, do you believe in the power a name can hold? For example, one of my grandfather's was called James. He was a misogynistic, unfaithful, angry, womanizing pig (as told to me by my mother). I have a brother also called James, and not only does he look a lot like my grandfather but has one or two of those traits. Coincidence, or something in the name? My sons have; to me, what I consider special names. My eldest, who will be 18 this year is called Keiron Jacob. I did not know the meaning of his name when I chose it, I just loved the sounding of the names chosen, but I have since found out their meanings (Keiron means Dark and Jacob means supplanter). I would not say that Keiron is either dark, nor is he any kind of usurper (but he is young, you never know!) My middle child has somewhat of a tongue in cheek name in reference to his birth. His name is Damien, named after the child from the film "the Omen". He was born 6 days early and weighed 6 pounds and 6 ounces (plus I thought it a lovely name, but it fit). So far he has not caused anyone to kill themselves... yet. My youngest child has a beautiful name, and it is Loki. He is named after the Norse god of mischief. He's a wonderfully behaved baby and certainly no miscief maker yet, though of that one I am sure his name will make an impression on his nature! So, do you think a name matters when trying to consider the nature of a person?
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@mammots (3209)
• Philippines
31 Mar 16
Our names are the very first to receive judgement from persons whom weve never met. Like for example in applying for a job or in case of children in enrolling for school.
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31 Mar 16
This is very true, having a little bit of an odd name myself, it's certainly something people noticed and helped to make me meorable. My first name is Bobby-joe (as my username suggests) and being female and living in England, that's not overly common. Bobby is usually the shortening for Robert, which is a boys name, so in primary school I was picked on for it. But as I grew older, people were less bothered by it and as an adult, most people I meet think it's a great name, unusual and easy to remember :)
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@mammots (3209)
• Philippines
31 Mar 16
@bobbyjoe143 In school children with odd funny names gets bullied or as you said "picked on". This is a very sad thing that could happen to our children.
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31 Mar 16
@mammots Unfortunately small children can sometimes be cruel and not really know the implications of what they are doing. Fortunately most grow out of it :) I have a strong personality and this certainly saved me from being bullied as I got older, no-one dared to bully me ha! Plus I am from a large family and have 2 older siblings who told other kids to leave me alone and that worked.
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
31 Mar 16
I don't believe that a name forms the character of a person ..But of course it is important to choose a name that sounds nice and easy to spell..
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• Kolkata, India
31 Mar 16
It might sound crazy, but I'd like to share something. I believe in the power of sound vibrations. Vibrations have a tremendous effect on lifeforms. Any word uttered is basically a sequence of sound vibrations. It has got power. It is important that the words we utter be scientifically structured to make the power of sound work for us, not against us. Names are words which have a the most vigorous effect on a person's life, because, every now and then he/she is being bombarded with sound vibrations, each time the person is called by his/her name. Intuitively, a person's name is the word he/she gets to hear the maximum number of times in his/her lifetime. Therefore, it would be wise to take utmost care while naming a child, so that the name carries some vibrations which affect the child in some positive way.
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