Clingy Friends

@flapiz (23530)
United Kingdom
March 30, 2016 9:23pm CST
I'm in a situation where having friends seem inconvenient. Like today all I want to do is stay at home and make assessments but my friend wants to jog. I wanted to say no but I already missed out on our jogging date yesterday because I had to work. So I dragged myself out of the house to jog. Then another friend texted me. She's pregnant and she wants to eat Japanese hot plate for lunch and wants to catch up with me. I can't say no to a pregnant lady. Aghhh sometimes I don't feel like I own my time. After all those I still need to accompany my cousin to her school. I am not sure it will all fit in one day. And I have an assessment to finish.
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@MGjhaud (23228)
• Philippines
31 Mar 16
my friends know me too well that i dont like going out. so they dont push.. you can say no, you know. youve got good reason anyway.
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@flapiz (23530)
• United Kingdom
31 Mar 16
I hate going out but I also hate staying home. I'm a living contradiction.
@MGjhaud (23228)
• Philippines
31 Mar 16
@flapiz hahaha oh my thats a hard life to live..
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@flapiz (23530)
• United Kingdom
31 Mar 16
@MGjhaud Quite hard I'm getting too exhausted by all this pro activity cause I'm really used to the home girl life. I just don't want to stay home these days as there's too many people in the house already.
• Indonesia
4 Apr 16
Hehe, but it's nice that you still got many friends who want to hang out with you, I say, just decline their offer if you got a good reason for not being able to accompany them.
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@flapiz (23530)
• United Kingdom
4 Apr 16
That's the only thing I keep reminding myself. These friends of mine are there for me through thick and thin so they are worth the sacrifice.
@mimiang (3760)
• Philippines
31 Mar 16
One of these days, you can just say no and have a personal time . They will understand
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@flapiz (23530)
• United Kingdom
31 Mar 16
Hopefully. I only got few real friends here so I'm trying my best to accommodate and keep them.
@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
31 Mar 16
I got a few of those but I just deal
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@flapiz (23530)
• United Kingdom
31 Mar 16
I deal with it by saying yes. And I end up being exhausted.
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