...true love or family?? which is which??
@victoria15 (29)
Makati, Philippines
April 2, 2016 12:37am CST
...helping a colleague of mine torned between family and his current girlfriend which he loved the most. Due to the fact that he need to stay with his family and stay with the boring wife, because if his two kids he dont have any choice at all. He is also thinking of this new girl which is an apple of his eyes now, making him happy all the time and making all his time alive and he is just always on the cloud nine....planning for divorce but thinking about two kids to left. Guys???
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@victoria15 (29)
• Makati, Philippines
2 Apr 16
Possible focus on his kids more than thinking his personal wants i guess will be the best decision...
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@divssri (971)
• Bangalore, India
2 Apr 16
@victoria15 yes your kids are very first priority for you you can not make adjustments with them at any cost.
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It makes me angry and sad at the same time. I hope the apple of his eyes now will not turn out boring after all
@victoria15 (29)
• Makati, Philippines
2 Apr 16
Nice point @mammots...maybe he just needs a little bit of attention or quality time with the wife. Might turn out same ending with the new one.
@cherriefic (10400)
• Philippines
2 Apr 16
I've got a lot guy friends whose like that. In the end, it's still their families who won the battle.
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@victoria15 (29)
• Makati, Philippines
2 Apr 16
I also go with that option...maybe he is just looking for comfort he dont get from his wife...uhhhhgh! Sad but...he have to..
@TwixTwinz (169)
• Philippines
2 Apr 16
one of the thing that I hate about my parents is sometimes they making a boundary between me and my girlfriend. They used to unlike the girl and eventually leads to break up . They did it twice, what I hate is when you are old enough and you think you can handle yourself they should make that boundary free from you.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
2 Apr 16
That's a very difficult situation. And I'm glad I am not in his position. The strongest bond in the family is that of a parent and a child. It's easier to tear the spouse from each other but difficult to tear apart a parent and a child. I think it all depends on him.
I just hope that if he chose to be with the woman that could make him really happy, he still has the opportunity to be with his children. That way, he doesn't lose anybody.
@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
2 Apr 16
This is always a tough situation.
In the long run, he must think of his children, but if he is truly unhappy with his wife, then it is not the best to stay.
There is much to think of and decide.
@hydraa (807)
• Mumbai, India
2 Apr 16
Choosing his girlfriend over his existing family won't work in the long run. People always want something new and they think they can find happiness with someone else. That's not how it is.
@hydraa (807)
• Mumbai, India
2 Apr 16
@victoria15 yea true. People just think about themselves and they take decisions on their temporary feelings and ruin the beautiful relationship they already have built.
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@victoria15 (29)
• Makati, Philippines
2 Apr 16
...but also this is like a common problem nowadays for married people...
@wangbaoling (184)
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2 Apr 16
I like my home,do you like your home.I think you even more weal than wanderer.
