Feeling of liberation after losing a job

@scheng1 (24649)
Singapore
April 2, 2016 9:32am CST
In Canned: How I Lost Ten Jobs in Ten Years and Learned to Love Unemployment, Franklin Schneider described the feeling of liberation after he got fired from a job. I can understand that feeling even though I was never fired from any job. I had to tender resignation and served the full notice period or worked till the end of the contractual period. After the last day, I had the feeling of freedom, of liberation too. The first day without a job is always the best. I can sleep late, and go to the supermarket while the rest of the world are working. I can go to the beach, to the nature park, and everywhere else because I can.
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@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
2 Apr 16
I lobe that feeling cause you feel free.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
2 Apr 16
Yes, the feeling of freedom is very intoxicating. I think that is how retirees feel on their first day of retirement.
@kaka135 (14994)
• Malaysia
2 Apr 16
I can understand the feeling of freedom as well, but I didn't really enjoy the first day without a job. I always thought of taking a short break (at least a month) between jobs, but I think I was quite blessed as I always got a job just after I tendered my resignation letter, so I always got to start the next job very soon. But, I think at least now I am enjoying the freedom of doing what I want, to certain extent.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
3 Apr 16
Yes, you have a much better life now. Staying home to take care of your kids, and doing some freelance assignments is much better than rushing to work every day.
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@kaka135 (14994)
• Malaysia
10 Apr 16
@scheng1 I guess it depends individually. Some would not prefer the life I am having now. Some of my friends prefer to go out and work, even without financial concern. They think they'll enjoy more freedom while working outside.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
10 Apr 16
@kaka135 Yes, many colleagues belong to the group of mothers who prefer to work than staying home to take care of their children. They are very tired when they take care of children. At least when they work, they have a time to knock off and go home. Taking care of children does not have an end time.
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@quantum2020 (12054)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
3 Apr 16
I experience something similar a yer ago. It feels like a relief of something heavy on your shoulders.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
3 Apr 16
Wow, that job must be really stressful. I sure miss the days when I do not work, though the days of freedom are often very short. We have to get another job soon, and lose the freedom.
@TheHorse (238349)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 Apr 16
I feel anxious when I'm between jobs. I have three now, so if I lost one, I'd work more hours at the other two. I like to be cash-flow positive. And I like to be busy.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
3 Apr 16
I like to be cash-flow positive, and I want to have it without a job. I still am building up a consistent cash flow from investment. I have not planned it very well when I first started investing for income. I would get dividend for about 6 out of 12 months, and the income is not consistent too. I have to do it better so that I have dividend income every single month to cover my expenses.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
3 Apr 16
@TheHorse No, not at all. If you use a money manager, you are entrusting your money to him to invest. For me, I do not trust anyone to manage my money. I rather learn, invest, and now I can say that I am much better than many money managers. For last year, my dividend is about 10%. The year before was about 8%. Think of it as a saving account that pays 10% interest, isn't that great? It all depends on the companies that I invest in, and my investment knowledge.
@TheHorse (238349)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 Apr 16
@scheng1 Isn't investing glorified gambling? I hide some of my savings from my money manager.
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@lilnana1111 (2305)
• United States
3 Apr 16
I feel a little insecure when I don't have an income coming in, I worry about how I'll pay my bills.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
3 Apr 16
If you have prepared for a few months before you quit your job, there is no need to worry, In the case of this author, he planned to get himself fired from the job so that he would get unemployment checks. In many cases, he just refused to do as told, or he argued with his boss and insulted his boss.
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• United States
3 Apr 16
@scheng1 Yes it does help to prepare ahead of time for it.
@AkoPinay (11496)
• Philippines
3 Apr 16
Yes, I left my job and I am happy I am at the beach everyday but I also miss the money I thought the author of that book became successful online
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
3 Apr 16
The author is definitely successful offline in his writing, but not online. He writes and contributes to a newspaper in Washington for years. Though he is good at getting fired for many reasons, he sure is a good writer.
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@rakski (156652)
• Philippines
3 Apr 16
It is a nice feeling when you wake up feeling free and that you do not have to get up early to prepare for the job that you drag yourself up. I so love it!
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
3 Apr 16
Yes, I would love it too. If you can have enough saving and do not need to work anymore, that is really good. I guess many retirees with annuity income or pension income have the same liberating feeling.
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
2 Apr 16
Yes, I had the same feeling when I resigned from may 8-5 job. I can enjoy my family, do gardening, etc. But we can't enjoy the very long "vacation" if we did not save for it.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
3 Apr 16
If you want to quit, you have time to save for it. If the company is in bad shape, the employees better save for a period of joblessness too. The company will definitely reduce manpower or even close down. Most of the times, we are not fired from the job, so we have time to plan our finances to enjoy a period of freedom from work.