My husband's classmate is already a grandma now...
By youless
@youless (114117)
Guangzhou, China
April 11, 2016 9:50am CST
Actually my husband is just 44 years old, and our child is 11 years old now. Although it is not a very early age for him to get married and have a child, but it is very common time in the city.
Today my husband told me that one of his classmate who is already a grandma in the village
What a difference! A grandma sounds to be a very far term for me
What a difference! A grandma sounds to be a very far term for me6 people like this
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@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Apr 16
@scheng1 I don't know. Usually village people don't have a high expectation and demands for their lives. So they can be content and feel satisfactory. Whereas in the city, people always pursue so many things, wealth, fame and so on. It is exhausted and sometimes it leads to high pressure and then bad health. So it is hard to say which life is happier.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
12 Apr 16
@youless Actually I am sorry for her child and grandchild.
Her child must be in his 20s only, and there are still opportunities to get ahead if not for the baby.
I think this is the cycle of poverty among the villagers.
When they do not have high education, and yet they have high expenses, that is a way sure to get stagnant.
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
11 Apr 16
Did you mean that it is not uncommon to marry at 11?
I am sorry I am confused youless lolz
But at any rate, yes at 44 young to be a grandma.
I am sorry I am confused youless lolz
But at any rate, yes at 44 young to be a grandma.1 person likes this
@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
12 Apr 16
@youless Okay I now understand..thanks youless
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@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
11 Apr 16
Hehe definitely a different term
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
11 Apr 16
Yes, agree with you. In my mind, grandma is a woman when she about 50 years old or more. But, I have a neighbor who has a grandchild, while she still 35 years. I think it is personal choice when they want to get married and when their children get married...
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
12 Apr 16
@youless This situation also happen to my mother. My mother being a grandma when she is 33 years old...My mother gets married at 15 years and my oldest sister gets married at 16 years. But, this happens about 40 years ago and it is common phenomenon in my country. If it happens right now, it looks strange...
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