T ball practice

@sissy15 (12269)
United States
April 13, 2016 3:29am CST
My son had his very first T ball practice today, he has one Thursday too and a game Saturday. We have had 2 or 3 practices cancelled due to weather. I have always found keeping my son involved and active very important. I don't care if my son isn't the best at sports, I use sports and other programs as a way to keep him active with all of his extra energy and get him around other kids his own age. I also think it's important he learns how to be apart of a team. I don't do this as a way of making him the best. I don't expect him to be the best, I expect him to go out and have fun and learn how to follow directions and be apart of a team. My son is more or less an only child as he doesn't see his other siblings, and he's used to having his way and doing what he wants, and I need him to learn that he sometimes has to learn how to take turns and have patience when he doesn't get what he wants right away, and he has to learn how to keep trying before saying he can't do something. This isn't about him being a great athlete. This is about him learning basic skills that I can't teach him at home, because he is an only child. He needs to learn to cooperate with other children. I have to say today's practice went OK, but he was one of the only children having a difficult time standing still and paying attention. He was dancing while waiting in line, and he was squatting pulling out grass as he was standing on base and had to have his name yelled out a few times before he knew to run lol. He has so much energy and he has a difficult time standing still, when we make him stand still it's like torture for him, but he can focus. He just has to be standing and moving, but he is capable of focusing. He gets a lot of things quickly, but he's usually standing while doing something. My boyfriend is the same way though. It's funny I'll see them both standing and waiting while swaying back and forth next to each other. My son did have fun for the most part, but he has trouble staying focused when he's not being talked to directly. My son made it through T ball without injury, only to smack his head on a car mirror on the way to the car. I told him he needed to pay more attention when he was walking, he told me he saw the mirror and walked into it anyway...I don't know about my child. When I asked him why he would walk into a mirror he couldn't answer me. He now has a bump bruise on his forehead. I plan on working with my son tomorrow on his throwing, he has to learn to throw over handed. I want him to do a little better on Thursday, so the coaches don't have to do as much with the game coming up soon. It's going to be a tiring, busy week. Here's hoping his next practice goes a little better. I sure hope he does better with T ball than he did with soccer lol.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
13 Apr 16
I coached my son on T-ball when he was younger. It was a bit difficult to coach (as it was my first and last time coaching), with all the kids just learning. Like you described, some of the kids in the team were a distracted, some were uninterested, and we'd have days were some were just throwing fits during practice and games. I did endure it. It was also my son's introduction to organized sports. He did like the team concept. We just finished our third year of hockey last month.
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@sissy15 (12269)
• United States
14 Apr 16
LOL, I would never want to coach. I've worked with kids for a really long time, so I know how they can be. I did Early Childhood Education, and it's difficult enough getting them to focus on work let alone sports. My son isn't used to the team concept, he is an only child so it's something that's important for him to learn. My nephew plays hockey and loves it.
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@sissy15 (12269)
• United States
14 Apr 16
@bounce58 My nephew is going to be 11, and my son is only 5, IDK how that would go lol. My son looks up to my nephew and my nephew loves my son and is pretty good with him. They're the only boys in a sea full of girls at least of the younger ones. I have 3 nephews who are in their 20s and 30s, but my son and nephew are the only two boys of the younger 7, they seem to notice and stick together lol. I'm sure my nephew would love teaching my son, but they don't see each other all that often, usually just holidays.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
14 Apr 16
@sissy15 That's great! Maybe after your son could learn the team concept, he could learn hockey too and play with your nephew.
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@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
13 Apr 16
It's good that you keep him active in sports... Yeah, at his age it is best to use sports as a learning venue to socialize with others. He has plenty of time to do it more competitively should he chooses to do so. Have fun!
@sissy15 (12269)
• United States
13 Apr 16
Thanks, yeah I think it's a great learning opportunity for him. I see so many parents take them so seriously. They're a bunch of 4,5,and 6 yr old's they should be having fun and learning the game, and not have a bunch of expectations forced on them. As my son gets older he'll have a choice if he wants to continue to play, but right now it's just important for him to get out there and have fun and socialize.
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