I Wish I Can Find Someone Like Me: Is It for Real?

@Shavkat (141905)
Philippines
April 23, 2016 10:42am CST
It is really hard to find someone who could be the replica of my personality. In the long run, I wish I could find someone who can love me the way I do. If it happens that I found the mirror image of myself, then there will be no heartaches again. But then, it is not possible. Since we exist with different uniqueness. In some point, if I found someone that is so identical to my desire. Then there is no challenge and it doesn’t spice up my life. Some of you had read my previous epistle about relationship failure, it is a part of leaving behind the bad outcome. I am looking forward to know the better half of my life soon.
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amnabas
@amnabas (14877)
• Karachi, Pakistan
23 Apr 16
Yes you can't have your identical personality.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
@amnabas I had come to realize that my friend.
arbie bee
@brokenbee (11937)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
I don't wish to find someone like me. I might not be able to handle that person. Lol
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Curlann
@annierose (21977)
• United States
24 Apr 16
I agree with you arbie! It is same with me. I am moody and if my partner is moody too then we might not have a loving and peaceful relationship. I am a sort of clumsy person and my partner is the exact opposite. So it is like I will mess things and he is the one who will clean it up or arrange it.
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arbie bee
@brokenbee (11937)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
@Shavkat hahaba yes! That's why I am not interested to see the exact me with another person. I hope I will find someone who will accept me for who I am.
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arbie bee
@brokenbee (11937)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
@annierose hahaha yes! I need someone who can tolerate and accept me for being me.
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marcyaz
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
23 Apr 16
It is not going to be easy to find a model of yourself and when you do maybe you won't be satisfied, then what. Just let happen what will happen why look for anyone.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
@Marcyaz From now on, I am not going to look for this special person. It will come in the right time and place.
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Curlann
@annierose (21977)
• United States
24 Apr 16
@Shavkat I agree with what you are thinking. Sometimes love comes in a way we are not expecting.So, while waiting, enjoy the freedom of being single. Know more about yourself and continue on praying for that special person to come into your life.
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Alfredo Rossi
@amadeo (111937)
• United States
23 Apr 16
I am not sure where going with this.Maybe something to work on.What was the failure?
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Curlann
@annierose (21977)
• United States
24 Apr 16
@Shavkat You deserve better. Do not lose hope. I think people come in our lives with different purposes. Think of the reason why you met her. Did she left you with any lessons about life or relationships?
Shavkat
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
@amadeo I am not sure my dear friend. In that previous failed relationship, I had done everything to save it. But then, it didn't work out.
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Nehal intodia
@gochunehal (782)
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23 Apr 16
It is not real in life.. We all are different and everyone is different in their personality... Hope you will get your better half soon
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
@gochunehal I hope you whispered like an angel. I will have my perfect soul mate in the future.
Nehal intodia
@gochunehal (782)
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24 Apr 16
@Shavkat yahh... Soon she will come to you...
Wowtalk
@Wowtalk (592)
• Jamaica
23 Apr 16
very interesting, If I find someone like myself there is going to be conflict, all my horrible ways I would hate and all my good ways I would love.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
@Wowtalk Thanks for liking it. I do think that if we find the same person like us, it could have conflicts too.
Sanaa Agrawal
@Sweetsona (300)
• India
4 May 16
Lovers complete each other.. U also need someone to complete u, become ur strength.. Understand u.. Accept u the way u r.. But dat person need not necessarily be like u only.. You will find a very nice person soon