I Want to Lose Weight, Yet I Don't Want to Lose Weight
@pinkCardigangirl (587)
United States
    April 26, 2016 4:27pm CST
                         
            That's really what it's about. The title says it all. I have been wanting to lose several pounds for a little over a year now. I dropped ten pounds recently, and in no time I added them back up. I want to lose the weight, but I'm not committed to losing the weight. I want to drop pounds, but that second helping sounds so good. Sigh. I really need to get focused here. Is anyone else struggling with losing weight?
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         @BelleStarr (61413)
 • United States
                    26 Apr 16
                    Losing it is the easy part, keeping it off quite another. Welcome to mylot, I was just thinking about you a couple of days ago and wondering if you would find your way here and it seems you have. Lots of old Bubblews friends are here,
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                    @pinkCardigangirl (587)
 • United States
                            26 Apr 16
                                    
                            It's so nice to see you here. I have noticed a few bubblers here. I'm still trying to navigate my way around and trying to find what everyone is blogging about. I'm not having much luck. I see recent activity, but not their own discussions. :)
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@BettyB (4117)
 • Summerville, South Carolina
                            29 Apr 16
                                    
                            @pinkCardigangirl I'm going to take a stab at it again.  I've gained six pounds over the winter.  I need to lose that and another 50.
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                            @pinkCardigangirl (587)
 • United States
                            29 Apr 16
                                    
                            @BettyB You can do it! I will be your cheer person! :)
                            @pinkCardigangirl (587)
 • United States
                            29 Apr 16
                                    
                            It really does. Sigh. It can be so hard when the mind isn't set to do it. I'm sorry I didn't see you commented until now. I guess I'm still learning my way on here. :)
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 @WorDazza (15828)
 • Manchester, England
                    29 Apr 16
                    I was exercising like mad and cutting back on what I ate but I was still carrying a few extra pounds. We acquired a dog (long story!) and within a couple of months lost about 7lbs. So there you go. Simple. Get a dog, if you haven't already got one. Oh, and walk him 3 times a day. I think that last bit might be the important part!!
And welcome to myLot from another ex Bubbler!!!
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@WorDazza (15828)
 • Manchester, England
                            29 Apr 16
                                    
                            @pinkCardigangirl If he's anything like my cats then he undoubtedly will be setting a terrible example.
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                            @pinkCardigangirl (587)
 • United States
                            29 Apr 16
                                    
                            Oh yay! Another bubbling friend! It's so nice to see you! We don't have a dog. We do have a cat. Maybe he's setting the wrong example for me. ha ha.
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 @lilnana1111 (2305)
 • United States
                    29 Apr 16
                    Gosh, I could have written this word by word, have you been living in my closet, lol.
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                    @pinkCardigangirl (587)
 • United States
                            29 Apr 16
                                    
                            Ha ha. It's so hard. We just need magic wands for many areas of our lives! Weight loss is one. lol
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                            @lilnana1111 (2305)
 • United States
                            2 May 16
                                    
                            @pinkCardigangirl oh I like that idea!
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@Yar_Joey (3271)
 • Philippines
                            29 Apr 16
                                    
                            @pinkCardigangirl Comments appear in our notifications, my friend. Maybe you missed seeing it.
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                            @pinkCardigangirl (587)
 • United States
                            29 Apr 16
                                    
                            Oh wow! Just from walking? That's great! I need to rethink this walking! :) Sorry I didn't see this comment sooner. I didn't know it was here. I guess I'm still learning my way around this site. :)
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 @VivaLaDani13 (60812)
 • Perth, Australia
                    29 Apr 16
                    I understand how you feel! I have depression so I get very unmotivated on trying to do various things. Losing weight is one of them! 
I hate going clothes shopping because I hate when the clothes that look awesome on the rack don't look good on me. Just frustrating. 
I hope you get into the habit of dieting and exercising so it makes you feel good for accomplishing it. I need to do the same.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
 • Perth, Australia
                            29 Apr 16
                                    
                            @pinkCardigangirl I'm sorry about the depression. It's a very hard thing to deal with. 
I hope you can too! It can be a bit of a difficult thing to break an old habit and moving into a new one.
haha yeah I get so damn frustrated! Almost have a tantrum in the change room lol
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                            @pinkCardigangirl (587)
 • United States
                            29 Apr 16
                                    
                            Oh I understand depression too. :( It's so hard to get anything done when you're fighting depression. Hopefully I'll get myself focused soon. I feel the same way about the clothes on the rack! They look cute, but when you try them on...ummmm...not so cute. lol :)
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 @shaggin (74340)
 • United States
                    27 Apr 16
                    Ahh well the title is a bit confusing. Sounds like you want to lose the weight but don't want to work at it or don't have the motivation. I don't need to lose any weight but I have no motivation to exercise which everyone needs for a healthy body and heart.
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                    @pinkCardigangirl (587)
 • United States
                            29 Apr 16
                                    
                            I think I'm just a confusing person. Sorry I didn't see this comment sooner. I guess I'm still learning this site. :) And exercise is important. :)
                             @irishidid (8687)
 • United States
                    26 Apr 16
                    You know if you diet the right way you can eat a lot of food. It's a matter of what you're putting in your mouth not how much. Oh and fat doesn't make you fat, sugar does.
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                    @pinkCardigangirl (587)
 • United States
                            29 Apr 16
                                    
                            That's my problem right there! Sugar! I can't have it in the house or I go crazy. I will just binge on chocolates and sweets! When I was young I rarely ate candy. Now that I'm older, I need something sweet. But I don't buy it so I won't eat it. And I'm sorry for not seeing your comment until right now. I guess I'm still figuring things out. :)
                             @toniganzon (72539)
 • Philippines
                    27 Apr 16
                    Hi, there was a time when i was struggling in GAINING weight. Yes that was my problem because I seem to lose weight faster than other people. I talked to my cousin about that and he happens to be a doctor and he told me i should discipline myself to to sleep at least 8 hours. Eat my meals at exactly the same time everyday and eat healthy snacks in between almost the same time everyday. In a matter of one month I gained 2kg. 
He told me it's the same with gaining weight. You have to be disciplined and you have to be consistent. 
Good luck!
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                    @pinkCardigangirl (587)
 • United States
                            29 Apr 16
                                    
                            I've read that not getting enough sleep can contribute to gaining weight too. But you're right. I have to be consistent and eat healthier. Sorry I didn't see this post sooner. I didn't know you commented until I just saw it right now. :)
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                            @pinkCardigangirl (587)
 • United States
                            27 Apr 16
                                    
                            I  need to work out my schedule better. I could use a daily walk. :)
                             @JESSY3236 (21211)
 • United States
                    29 Apr 16
                    I don't need to lose weight, but I do exercise to strengthen my legs. Just stick with it.
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                    @pinkCardigangirl (587)
 • United States
                            29 Apr 16
                                    
                            I like that! That's going to be the  new thing I say "Be free, baby!" :)
                            
 
                             
                        
 
                    










