OMG! I Really Lost My Temper?!?

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@Shavkat (141906)

Philippines

May 2, 2016 10:21pm CST

It has been days that my neighbor’s tenants talking out loud. As if she owns the whole town, it is so inconsiderate to the welfare of her neighborhood. I had let it go for a couple of times and ignored it. Early this morning, I woke up so cranky since this particular tenant talks so loud. I wasn't able to control my temper and confronted her. Moreover, she seems not so concern. I gave an ultimatum proposition to deal with her behavior. If she continues to brush off the incidence, I will ask the assistance of the local officials in my area and file a formal complain for having public disturbance. How are you going to deal with this tenant, guys? Photo Credit:

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@Lucky15 (37391)

• Philippines

3 May 16

I will tell her about theissue. Just need some courage

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

3 May 16

I am sure you will do the same thing. It takes a lot of courage.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

3 May 16

@Lucky15 I think that is your personality. I had learned to fight back because this kind of people taught me.

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@Lucky15 (37391)

• Philippines

3 May 16

@Shavkat am not really good in confronting

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@Bluedoll (16770)

• Canada

3 May 16

Funny you should post about this. Do you notice people sometimes have sayings or signs they adopt? Like waving a certain way? They pick things up they see other do. I've been noticing a few people around getting loud lately though not aggressive just attention getting.

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@Bluedoll (16770)

• Canada

3 May 16

@Shavkat My next door neighbours were a nice couple and very friendly, waving to other people even if they didn't know them. One day this person in the neighbourhood came to their door and started talking to them. Each day he got closer. He was very loud. Shouted at his dog and talked so everyone could hear him sometimes. Eventually my neighbours told him he was not to come around because he was so bold. Like you said insensitive and not caring about others.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

20 May 16

@Bluedoll I agree. Some people are becoming so abusive and tend to be loud.

@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

3 May 16

Some people are lack of attention. It seems that they are starting to be insensitive.

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@toniganzon (77064)

• Philippines

3 May 16

I will kill her?

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@toniganzon (77064)

• Philippines

3 May 16

@Shavkat Perfect! What goes around comes back around.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

3 May 16

I will not say anything. That notion runs at the back of my mind.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

3 May 16

@toniganzon I still love my life. Bad karma strikes in a perfect timing for this particular person.

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@SIMPLYD (90717)

• Philippines

4 May 16

I think i will do the same too , if the talking loud cannot be done even if you have requested them to. So, did they lessen the volume of their voices already ?

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

4 May 16

They came home last night with no sounds at all. I guess they felt the sensitivity of the issue.

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@SIMPLYD (90717)

• Philippines

4 May 16

@Shavkat And they feared what you told them .

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

4 May 16

@SIMPLYD They should, my dear friend. If they really resist, then I will not put off the fight easily.

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@else34 (13515)

• New Delhi, India

4 May 16

@Shavkat,First of all,sorry for being late.I had been to my younger sister's to participate in her daughter's ring ceremony.....I can understand your anger over so much noise.Fortunately I don't have such noisy neighbours.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

5 May 16

Can I live in your house?

You are lucky my friend. You don't need to deal with this kind of people.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

6 May 16

@else34 Is that a promise?lol

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@else34 (13515)

• New Delhi, India

6 May 16

@Shavkat Why not?You are welcome,my friend.

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@shshiju (10342)

• Cochin, India

3 May 16

Deal or No Deal What you chose for your tenant neighbor.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

4 May 16

@shshiju She will deal with the consequences if there is no changes in her behavior.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

5 May 16

@shshiju I will update you my friend.lol

@shshiju (10342)

• Cochin, India

4 May 16

@Shavkat O Lol what type of consequences Shavkat?

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

3 May 16

Generally there are hours when you should not make loud noises and it seems like she does not care who she disturbs.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

4 May 16

@Shavkat Will need to learn self discipline than.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

4 May 16

@Marcyaz Exactly, my dear friend. She doesn't have self-discipline.

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@Hatley (163772)

• Garden Grove, California

3 May 16

here in our towns we have a noise ordinance and yo u call the police if someones being really loud after 10 O clock at night. I always let them handle the rowdey ones.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

3 May 16

@Hatley I am pretty sure if this will continue is to call the police and ask assistance to the local officials. We have also such an ordinance. So I need to impose this simple rule to this particular tenant.

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@Hatley (163772)

• Garden Grove, California

5 May 16

@Shavkat yes do that as we have had to a l ot of times too

@infatuatedbby (94909)

• United States

3 May 16

I am sorry to hear. I hope she stops talking so loud and acting as if she owns the town!

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

3 May 16

That's the point my friend. I really cannot make them play around in my territory and acted as if she has the power over us.

@infatuatedbby (94909)

• United States

3 May 16

@Shavkat Yes but by confronting her did she reduce her loud talking?

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

4 May 16

@infatuatedbby When she came back home last night, she didn't make any sound at all. I guess she got my point.

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Arthur Chappell

@arthurchappell (44941)

• Preston, England

4 May 16

Seems you made the right move to me - hope she takes notice

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

20 May 16

@arthurchappell I don't have the choice. I need to take an action.

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@akalinus (44366)

• United States

4 May 16

Most people that talk too loud do it because they are hard of hearing. Yelling at her is not going to fix that. Maybe someone could help her get a hearing aid if she has insurance.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

4 May 16

She doesn't need a hearing aid my friend. She is too young to have it. The real reason, she has an attitude problem.

@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

5 May 16

@akalinus She doesn't have hearing problem. Basically, she needs to straighten up her behavior.

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@akalinus (44366)

• United States

4 May 16

@Shavkat Young people can have hearing problems, too. I have known toddlers who needed them. I guess if she quieted down, maybe I am wrong.

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@sol_cee (38669)

• Philippines

5 May 16

Glad you did something about it. You know, others just complain but do nothing about the problem at all.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

5 May 16

I think I really need to do something. If I will not say anything, these people will be abusive.

@mavlana (1019)

• India

4 May 16

I am very peace loving person but with god's grace m living in a place which is so peaceful.It seems that it engulfs all the anguish and sounds.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

5 May 16

I want my peaceful place remains peaceful. That's also what I wanted and should be respected by others.

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@mavlana (1019)

• India

5 May 16

@Shavkat One should respect but people hardly care for others feelings.

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@pinkCardigangirl (587)

• United States

3 May 16

I'm not sure how to handle these situations. I can only imagine how frustrating it must be! I hope she stops.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

4 May 16

@pinkCardigangirl She will stop. If not, I will file a legal case against her.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

4 May 16

@pinkCardigangirl It depends on how serious is the case. I am pretty sure the worst solution is to be evicted in our area.

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@pinkCardigangirl (587)

• United States

4 May 16

@Shavkat What happens if you file a legal case? Do they go to the home and do something? How does it work?

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@quantum2020 (12054)

• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico

4 May 16

I would use ear plugs, but also talk to her about this behavior. As a last resource, talk to the authorities, if she does not change her attitude.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

4 May 16

I will not go for her convenience. I had talked to her. She had stopped talking a loud last night. I hope she got my message to her.

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@Letranknight2015 (52665)

• Philippines

3 May 16

Lol, this reminded me of my brother's neighbor who has no regard when they do karaoke. Even when they transferred some how these people manage to follow since they got kick out of the other house they rent. Im so happy these days that we never had that kind of neighbor.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

4 May 16

That's also not excuse. They should really need to be kicked out in the neighborhood. You are lucky my dear friend.

@lokisdad (4226)

• United States

4 May 16

Having loud neighbors sucks it can be very disruptive but it really is a problem when they are loud and don't care even after you have talked to them nicely.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

4 May 16

You have a point. When I talked to her, she ignored me. Well, she is going to live in hell.

@gudheart (12659)

•

4 May 16

My dad has a terrible temper...I try and keep my distance when he is in one of those moods.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

20 May 16

@gudheart My dad has its temper. I just moved away and let the situation cool down.

@bluesa (15022)

• Johannesburg, South Africa

4 May 16

@Shavkat , I would talk to her too, and explain she is disturbing the peace, if she insists on being inconsiderate I would also file a formal complaint.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

4 May 16

I agree. If it doesn't listen, then I will file a formal complaint.

Nanette Piotrowski

@nanette64 (20363)

• Fairfield, Texas

3 May 16

I would definitely report her @Shavkat . I've been in the same position before and I don't put up with it.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

4 May 16

@nanette64 I am not also going to bend down in her level. She should know how to respect people and be sensitive enough not to disturb the peaceful neighborhood.

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