what ticks you off?

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I find it really too much if someone blames me or someone else for something that is out of control. That really makes me blow steam out of my ears. the reason is because I'm pretty sure I don't blame others or anyone with things that gets out of hand. Like the other day, I went out of the house because I had a job interview I said goodbye to my inlaws who were visiting and I closed the door and house gate behind me when I left,. a few minutes later, my mother in law was texting me and asking me if I closed the gate behind me because a burglar came in through the front door - took cellphones and money and even took the house key (and other keys) with him. The next day, everyone was asking me why I left the gate and the doors open and I asked who told them I left the gate and the door open and they said it was my inlaws. I was pissed cause I did not leave anything open. I closed them behind me. I felt bad because I was not careless at all but I was blamed for it. I didn't say anything else but I wanted to throw everyone out of the house and just leave me be. Somehow I blame myself in the process, but I couldn't lock all doors and gates since my inlaws are inside, how could I, right? Anyway, I was a bit furious but now it's fine.