I think for relationship break-ups,we are all to blame in a way

@waflay (2737)
Nairobi, Kenya
May 5, 2016 4:29am CST
Just today morning,I was listening to a radio show where men were asked whether it's important for them to inform their spouses if they will be having a long weekend out.But the responses that came along raised more questions than answers because for two people in love,communication is vital. So one man called and said that if he opts to stay out for three days,he owes his wife no explanation because this has nothing to do with what he shares with her.So it became clear that men were unapologetic if they stay out for any number of days.Women on the other claimed just being left in the dark about their whereabouts is just unacceptable and the disrespect of the highest order. So I just thought isn't this how we create loopholes that flatly make our relationships to fail?
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rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
5 May 16
As married couples , both should tell the spouse where he or she will be going . It's a give and take relationship , so there should be respect to each other .
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waflay
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 May 16
That's true because as long as you are in the marriage institution together,you need to make your partner of your plans and especially if you won't be going home.
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rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
5 May 16
@waflay It's one way of respecting each other as a husband and wife .
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Toni
@toniganzon (77310)
• Philippines
5 May 16
So that means if i were to go somewhere i don't owe my husband any explanation too? hmmm that seems not a good thing. Letting our spouses know where we are shows our respect for them.
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Toni
@toniganzon (77310)
• Philippines
5 May 16
@waflay Of course it does!
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waflay
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 May 16
It's so simple just letting your spouse know where you are going means a lot to the two of you.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 May 16
Some men are so insensitive. It shows how irresponsible and selfish a person who will act like it.
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waflay
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 May 16
I think with love matters,it's not good to thump up your feet because good communication means best for your marriage.
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Boingboing
@boiboing (13147)
• Northampton, England
5 May 16
I was talking to a guy at the weekend who told me that 20 years ago his wife 'went away for a weekend' and by the time she came back, he'd found himself an apartment and moved all his stuff out. She was cheating on him and he didn't intend to stick around and fight for her.
Ms.Chelle
@Chellezhere (6421)
• United States
7 May 16
Yes, we should let our loved ones know where we are. It's common courtesy.
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waflay
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
7 May 16
That's true it's important to inform your spouse of the places you plan to go to.
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