Fixing Broken Hearts
By Curlann
@annierose (21977)
United States
May 7, 2016 6:22pm CST
Having a complete family composing of faithful and loving wife or husband and obedient children is a gift from God. It adds to the happiness of a person because he knows he will always have someone to turn to called "family."
But, not all are given those blessings. Infidelity, misunderstandings, selfishness, vices are few of the factors that gives crack to the relationship of one another in the family.
What if one member in the family circle cannot do anything on these problems? Do you think that separation will be the best choice in order to be at peace? Is it a good way to mend the broken hearts of those who were hurt?
2 responses
@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
8 May 16
Tough one. I think respect is the most important thing. And we should also respect the fact that when nothing works it's best to be on our separate ways.
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
8 May 16
I agree on that idea. Being together will just complicate things. And why stay if you are no longer happy. On my own opinion, one of our big goals in life is to be happy. Sad to say, life will always give blows to us.
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
8 May 16
@toniganzon It is a good thing to be thankful everyday. Blessings overflow when we have a sense of gratitude and prefer to look on the bright side of life.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
8 May 16
@annierose happiness is when you think of the problems that you don't have.
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@Genipher (5405)
• United States
8 May 16
It depends on the person and situation.
If a person is in an unsafe environment, separation is a thing to strongly consider.
If a person is just a jerk or you have simple misunderstandings, then separation is the easy way out. Personally, I don't think that should be what kills a marriage.
If a person is unfaithful? Eh, that one's iffy. Personally, in this situation, I think a person should fight for their spouse instead of giving up on him or her.
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
8 May 16
What if the talk had already been done but the man or the woman kept on being unfaithful? There are cases where the "men" cannot control himself to look for other women even though they said that they love their wives.
@Genipher (5405)
• United States
8 May 16
@annierose
Are you in that situation or are you asking a hypothetical question?
"What ifs" are hard to nail down.
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
8 May 16
@Genipher No. I am not yet married yet but I witnessed such conflicts with the persons I have met.
