Thanks, but No Thanks

@DianneN (254948)
United States
May 8, 2016 8:25am CST
It was a beautiful rose gold and gold ring, with magnificent rubies and diamonds. It was my Mother's Day gift from my husband. He's on the way back to the store to return it. Why, you may wonder? I don't need it. I have more than enough jewelry, including a ruby and diamond ring which he bought for me years ago. He forgot about that one. Of course I thanked him for it and for the humorous card he gave me. I'm happy enough with just him. The flowers in the photo are from my wonderful older son and his wife. They each texted me from France. My younger son's fiancé texted me from Washington DC expressing her love for me. My younger son is treating me and my husband to a fancy dinner tonight. That's enough love for me. I hope those of you who celebrate will have a wonderful Mother's Day, just like me!
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
8 May 16
well not sure what to say about this.But I guess you are right there
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
9 May 16
@DianneN Good for you.
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@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
I told him that I'd most likely spend a lot of money in Chicago, so he ran back to the store with the ring. Lol!
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
8 May 16
I never expect anything from my husband on Mothers' Day - I'm not his mother. Your husband is a very generous man Dianne.
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@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
He is so sweet. He insists that I am the mother of his children, and should receive a gift from him, since I gifted him with two sons.
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@toniganzon (77346)
• Philippines
8 May 16
I didn't receive any present today except for a kiss and that was enough to make my day extra special.
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@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
I'm always happy with daily kisses and hugs, too!
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@Juliaacv (56456)
• Canada
8 May 16
Your flowers are beautiful. It was sweet of your hubby to remember you with a new ring. You've obviously got lots of rings that you don't wear on a regular basis either, so do I. Rubies are among my favorite because they are my birthstone. I'm glad that you're having time with your younger son this evening, one-on-one is so decadent. We had that this morning with our son and my heart is so very happy as a result. Now this afternoon my hubs and I are enjoying some quiet time together. The perfect day! Enjoy the rest of it!
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@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
Thanks! I'm glad you celebrated with your son. We just love being a family whenever and whomever is around at the time, holiday or not.
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@Juliaacv (56456)
• Canada
8 May 16
@DianneN I know, and so do we. I was thankful to have a few hours alone with Jonathon, not that I dislike Klaudia, but it was like very old days, just the 3 of us. We had a nice brunch out together and he gave me a sappy card and a nice bunch of pink carnations.
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@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
@Juliaacv Would you believe my DIL actually texted me to wish me a happy and wonderful MD? My son's fiancé texted me from Washington to tell me how much she loves me. That, and phone calls from my younger son, whom I will see in less than 4 hours, also called, as did my brother! It warmed my heart. My hubby won't allow me to lift a finger. I feel so much better than I did last year. Enjoy the rest of our extra special day. Btw, my DIL and son also included a small box of chocolates, which are in the photo. My hubby won't open them until I do. I know he's drooling for them.
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@hostessman (11871)
• Tucson, Arizona
8 May 16
@DianneN Thank you for showing it is careing and about love. Just being by your side means more than presents..
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@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
I agree!
@garymarsh6 (24140)
• United Kingdom
8 May 16
OH well I am sure he will get you something very special instead! Enjoy dinner DianneN
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@garymarsh6 (24140)
• United Kingdom
8 May 16
@DianneN I know where you are coming from. You get to a certain point in life and materially you just do not need anything apart from everyone to be happy and healthy. That is a good quality to have Dianne and gift enough!
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@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
@garymarsh6 Thank you for expressing that so superbly, Gary!
@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
I don't want or need anything, Gary!
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
8 May 16
How wonderful and the flowers are beautiful. I went out to eat also and it was a fun morning with my two sons and my daughter in-law. Have a terrific Mother's Day.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
8 May 16
@DianneN Thanks it was enjoyable. I know you will have an enjoyable dinner with your family.
@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
I'm so glad that you enjoyed yourself! It's been a fun day so far, and I can't wait for dinner with my only available son, even though we saw him yesterday and he just called me. Lol! Enjoy the remainder of your day!
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• United States
8 May 16
Happy Mother's Day! My mom doesn't allow us to get her gifts too! Balloons are just fine and a nice dinner/quality time
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@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
Your mom is very wise!
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@LeaPea2417 (40062)
• Toccoa, Georgia
8 May 16
Happy Mother's Day to you too. That is nice you have a loving husband and children who have treated you to a great day.
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@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
They are great people. They take after their daddy. Thank you.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
8 May 16
Glad that you made that decision, I hope your husband wasn't too upset. I am not a jewelry person at all.
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@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
He understood and agreed. We've been spending money on the house and are going away. The expensive ring was an outrageous, unnecessary expense. I have more than enough jewelry and not enough body parts to wear it all.
• United States
8 May 16
We really don't need more jewelry as we get older. I still have way too much. I need to find a place to sell it. I'm not going to use eBay. It's too much like work for me, but going to a jeweler who buys it is on my to do list. Happy times when everyone calls or texts. Not all of us have children who are this thoughtful. Enjoy.
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@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
I'm going to hand my jewelry down. We are going to meet with our attorney to draw up a codicil, so there won't be any hard feelings when I'm gone. Happy Mother's Day to you!
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• United States
9 May 16
@DianneN That's great. I already gave any jewelry I thought they would like to family members based on their preferences. I'm down to items that are too fabulous for my relatives or friends, so off to the store to sell it.
@Lucky15 (37391)
• Philippines
8 May 16
Happy mother's day and to every mothers out there ;)
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@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
Thank you so much!
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@miniam (9151)
• Bern, Switzerland
8 May 16
Hope you will enjoy your dinner with your son and husband.Just hope you did not hurt your husband`s feelings by asking him to return the gift he gave you .But im sure he will understand.
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@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
He understood. I've been telling him for years that I don't need jewelry. I did tell him that I will be shopping like a wild woman in Chicago with the money he spent on that ring. He laughed. After all these years, he knows me very well.
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@thelme55 (79368)
• Germany
8 May 16
That's was a wonderful day indeed. It was thoughtful of you and your children Dianne. You are very lucky. Happy new week ahead.
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@DianneN (254948)
• United States
8 May 16
Thanks and the very same to you. I have to get ready for dinner now. Hugs!
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
9 May 16
Belated happy mothers day to you! Contentment makes a person happier with just simple things like those lovely flowers!
@sishy7 (27166)
• Australia
9 May 16
Happy Mother's Day! And from the sound of it, you did have a very happy one indeed!
@PainsOnSlate (21845)
• Canada
9 May 16
Happy Mother's Day to you too.
@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
9 May 16
That was nice of your husband to buy the ring for you, but no point in keeping if you don't need it. You can only wear so many rings, right? Beautiful flowers and hope you enjoyed your dinner with your younger son.
9 May 16
Your husband is quite romantic and yes family's love is more bigger than any article..
@Dishari (687)
9 May 16
You are right. The precious moments you spend with your loved ones are way more important than some precious jewellery. Hope more people understood that!