IN NEED OF MAJOR ADVICE
By Maria
@MEAngle (237)
May 9, 2016 6:27pm CST
I have a fear that if I tell my mother the truth about some things that I've kept inside for years, she will be livid with me and will kick me out of her home. I mean, it's not like she's not going to find out in a year or so, but I just don't want her to hear the truth from someone else.
Can anyone relate, and possibly give their take on this?
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11 responses
@ElusiveButterfly (45939)
• United States
10 May 16
Perhaps you should prepare yourself for such an event. If you fear being homeless, you should save money to move out and get your own place. Once you have moved out, be honest with your mother. It is better that she know before someone else puts their own twist on the story.
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@miniam (9154)
• Bern, Switzerland
10 May 16
As you say, she`s going to find out, so how about just telling her?no matter how bad it is, it`s better she hear it from you than from some other person because they might have thier own version of things with half truths and half lies.
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@Sweetsona (300)
• India
10 May 16
Its normal.. We keep things from parents as we grow older. Its ok. Not that we are wrong but they just wont understand. Its ok.
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@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
10 May 16
Better tell her now as early as possible or she will learn it from somebody else. But that she would truly be hurt. Better be coming from you.
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
11 May 16
If you don't want her to hear it from somebody else then have the courage to tell her yourself and be prepared for the consequences.
@metastasis69 (29)
• Philippines
10 May 16
The truth will set you free. You need to tell your Mom in the right way and the right time. You should be aware of her moods when you tell those secrets. Mother always knows best and they will understand you if you're in a good way to approach here.
@Adilzargar (399)
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10 May 16
@MEAngle I think you should tell her, and if somebody else is going to tell her she might feel bad about it.
