I'm praying I am not pregnant

@shaggin (74987)
United States
May 13, 2016 8:34am CST
I am very careful to always take my birth control pills. I have been taking them for years. I always wanted more kids but not now. I want to know that if I ever have a child with someone again that it will work out with them. I do not want to be a single mother and have to have days where the child is with the dad so I will miss them. It is that time of the month. I spotted for two days and now pretty much nothing when it should be at its heaviest. I found that to be really odd. I have been taking a few different things that I got on AMZreview trader. Oneis a probiotic, one is a candida cleanse and the other is a Brain Boost. The brain boost pills contain saint johns wort. I was a little nervous about taking them when I received them and saw that ingredient as I was worried that it would interact with my anti-depressants. I never thought anything of the fact that herbs could decrease the effectiveness of birth control pills. Until today when I did a search to see what things can decrease the effectiveness of birth control pills. It listed 5 herbs and one of them is Saint Johns Wort. It is only a 3% extract it says on the bottle so hopefully I am just worrying for nothing. Maybe the candida cleanse lightens cycles or something.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
13 May 16
You can take fish oil to regulate the hormones but not too much. If you have too much fish oil, you will suffer terribly when you have the monthly cycle.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
13 May 16
I do not take fish oil as I heard it will run out onto your pants out of your behind lol. I heard that from two people who took it. I did not know though that it makes for a painful monthly cycle.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
13 May 16
@scheng1 Ohhh okay I see. I used to have that problem a lot when I was young. I have a bleeding disoder that causes that. I will stay away from fish oil haha thanks for the great information.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
13 May 16
@shaggin No, fish oil does not make for painful cycle. It makes for large pieces of blood clot flowing out, and that is terrible. You have to go to the toilet every 10 minutes!
@dodo19 (48182)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
13 May 16
That is certainly odd. I had a similar worry too recently. I was spotting instead of heavy period. Spoke to my doctor and she said if it doesn't get back to normal to go see her. Thankfully after a few months of just spotting instead of periods, it's back to normal. Maybe it's the same thing with you. Maybe you should just give it time.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
13 May 16
I hope that you are right. That is strange that you had it for a few months like that. I will wait a few days and try not to keep freaking out and then take a pregnancy test. I am really nervous right now. I feel like I needed to tell someone so I wrote about it here since I don't trust to tell anyone I know.
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@dodo19 (48182)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
13 May 16
@shaggin I understand. Sometimes we need to talk about it, and this is a good place for it. I was worried it too. But in my case, it passed. Hopefully things work out for you.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
13 May 16
@dodo19 I was freaking out so bad. I was getting sick to my stomach over it so I went down and bought a $1 test which have always been accurate for me. I'm not pregnant I am so glad!
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
13 May 16
If you don't want to be pregnant now then I hope your aren't.
@shaggin (74987)
• United States
13 May 16
Thank you I really do not want to be.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
13 May 16
@marcyaz I just took a test I was too nervous to wait. Thankfully I am not pregnant!
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
13 May 16
I'm pleased to see from the comments that it has turned out to be a false alarm.
@shaggin (74987)
• United States
16 May 16
Oh my goodness me to! My son came home from school after this and asked me if I was going to have another baby and if I was going to name it Christopher. I was in shock. He freaks me out the things he says sometimes. He has the same psychic tendencies I do. I am guessing maybe he just sensed what I was nervous about is why he thought this. Still very ironic. When I texted my man about taking the test he wrote back that he didn't really know why I was telling him this. I thought it was such a rude thing to say. I told him that I was really nervous and felt I needed to tell someone. I haven't really heard from him much since then. Oh well.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
16 May 16
@jaboUK As soon as he wants to come back I always let him. It's hard loving someone who doesn't deserve you.
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
16 May 16
@shaggin It sounds to me as if you are well rid of that man.