37 years and 10 years

@kaka135 (14918)

Malaysia

May 14, 2016 8:02am CST

It was my 37th birthday and 10th wedding anniversary yesterday. We don't really celebrate these, but we went out for lunch together with the children. It's just so nice to see I am already 37, and reaching 40 soon. I always wish I will be calmer and gentler when I am 40, that's a small goal for myself. So, three more years for me to practice mindfulness and joyfulness.

I have known my husband for more than 22 years, and we have been married for 10 years. I am grateful to have him as my best friend, my husband, my soul mate and the person I am walking together along the journey in my life. I hope there will be more peaceful and joyful days and years for us and for you too!

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@PainsOnSlate (21854)

• Canada

14 May 16

Congratulations to both of you and the children. I am much calmer than I was at 37 but the change happened when the Children went out on thier own. I think motherhood is wonderful but when they get to be adults, you can breath again...

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

20 May 16

Thanks. I think I can relate to that, though my children are still very young now, I can already feel like having more personal time as they have grown up a bit. When my third baby is born, I don't think I will be this free to come online often.

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@infatuatedbby (94921)

• United States

20 May 16

Aww so romantic. Did you get married on your birthday? Happy belated 37th Birthday and 10th year Anniversary to you!!

Long time! He-he and baby #3 on the way!

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

20 May 16

Yes, we registered on my birthday. My husband actually wanted it to be on 20 May (520 - sounds like I love you in Chinese), but it was not available for registration, so we picked a week before that, which is just happened to be my birthday as well.

Thanks for the wishes!

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

22 May 16

@infatuatedbby There are many birthdays going on in my family in May too, my husband's birthday and also later my third baby's birthday.

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@infatuatedbby (94921)

• United States

20 May 16

@kaka135 Hehe that is sweet you have a 2 in 1 for the day of your birthday/wedding

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@youless (112243)

• Guangzhou, China

14 May 16

That's nice that you celebrated two big issues on the same day

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

20 May 16

I actually always forgot about the anniversary, as we didn't really celebrate. My husband always remembered, but he didn't remind me.

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@youless (112243)

• Guangzhou, China

20 May 16

@kaka135 Your husband is very sweet

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

22 May 16

@youless Sweet? He always remembers, but always didn't remind me, and he purposely did that! But, it's okay, anyway we do not celebrate it.

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@sishy7 (27169)

• Australia

14 May 16

Happy birthday and happy anniversary!

I hope there will be many more happy years for you...

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

20 May 16

Thank you! I think you really like Doraemon, don't you?

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

22 May 16

@sishy7 I used to like reading the comics of Doraemon when I was young, well, I still like him now, because he has many magical tools!

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@sishy7 (27169)

• Australia

20 May 16

@kaka135 I don't really know too much about him...

I think he's cute and that's about it...

cute enough to make me using him as avatars

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@silvermist (19702)

• India

14 May 16

Happy Birthday and Happy Anniverssry .Hope both of you spend many more years together.How many kids do you have?

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

20 May 16

Thanks for the wishes. I have two children now, and one coming soon next week.

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@silvermist (19702)

• India

20 May 16

@kaka135 So you will be a new mother next week.Congratulations.

@miniam (9154)

• Bern, Switzerland

14 May 16

Congratulations on both,you get to celebrate twice at the same time which also mean double pleasure.

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

20 May 16

Thank you. We actually do not really celebrate these special days, so it's fine to me. I am already happy to be with my husband and my children.

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@miniam (9154)

• Bern, Switzerland

20 May 16

@kaka135 Celebrating is not everything,as long as you are happy,that`s what matters

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

22 May 16

@miniam Yes, we think that too. We just like to be together as a family, that's good enough.

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@marguicha (217291)

• Chile

14 May 16

Although it was yesterday, I can sing a happy birthday song off key

. A big hug and be happy.

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

20 May 16

Thank you for the birthday song!

@toniganzon (72279)

• Philippines

14 May 16

Sure you will have those. Happy birthday and happy anniversary. You're just a year younger than me.

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

20 May 16

Thanks for the wishes!

@LovingMyBabies (85125)

• Valdosta, Georgia

14 May 16

Congrats on your anniversary and happy birthday! =) I hope y'all have many more years together too.

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

20 May 16

Thanks for the wishes!

@angtobeheard (276)

• United States

15 May 16

You are very lucky to have someone that has had your back for 22 years. You will def get to the mindfulness and joyfulness you desire.

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

20 May 16

Yes, I am very grateful for meeting my husband and still holding each other's hand until now, and I am sure we'll be holding hands together for many more years too. Thanks! I really hope I can be more mindful and joyful.

@wiLLmaH (8801)

• Singapore, Singapore

20 May 16

Happy Birthday dear!

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

22 May 16

Thanks for the wishes!

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@mom210 (9041)

• United States

18 May 16

I am not sure if I mellow with age, I am not really seeing it. I hope you met your goal of getting better with age though. Congratulations 10 years is wonderful and a very happy birthday to ya

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

20 May 16

I am actually giving myself a target, 3 years from now.

But, I heard from some homeschooling moms, they really became gentler and more mindful after 40 years old. Of course, it's not that they didn't work for it and just reached there, they have been striving for it too.

Thanks for the wishes!

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@Lucky15 (37346)

• Philippines

14 May 16

Happy brthday and happy anniversary! :)

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

20 May 16

Thank you for the wishes.

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@rina110383 (24495)

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14 May 16

I wish you more birthdays and more years of healthy marriage for you & your husband.

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@kaka135 (14918)

• Malaysia

20 May 16

Thanks a lot!

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@dodo19 (47217)

• Beaconsfield, Quebec

30 May 16

Happy belated anniversary and birthday. I hope you are able to enjoy this next year, and celebrate many more birthdays and anniversaries.

@ridingbet (66857)

• Philippines

23 May 16

happy belated birthday and happy belated wedding anniversary to you my friend. i hope you enjoyed your day with your love one and family as well

@twentysix76 (674)

• Quezon City, Philippines

14 May 16

Happy Birthday and Happy anniversary...Wishing you never ending happiness Enjoy!

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Dr Souvik Chatterji

@sathviksouvik (18343)

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14 May 16

Happy birthday and happy anniversary.

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