Break the silence?

By Ade
May 17, 2016 7:02am CST
Had an attack in office today and all I could do is to curl up in the cubicle in the toilet because no one knows about my past. Breaking the silence about mental health is something which I really wanted to do. Sometimes I'm afraid to be judged. Sometimes I'm afraid of the sympathetic glares. But most of the time, I just wanna be treated as a normal person. But there's just too much stigma revolving around this topic. I've seen very often a quote - "when you break your arm,everyone rushes to sign you'd cast. When you talk about mentally illness, people run the other way". Honestly, I'm not all that bad. I'm functioning very properly except for a few isolated incidents. And my friends from the hospital, I think they're awesome. They're not crazy. We support one another better than any therapist because we understand how we all feel at certain seasons of our lives. Like other people, we just need support (and I'm thankful that I have a lot from my friends, family, employers!). And we can be normal, again, just like we once were. ;) And trust me, in our hearts we long to help others, because we know how it is to be helpless. So ... time to embrace people for who they are, not what their illness is!! :) Share your thoughts on this ya?
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17 May 16
U r a strong person...dont let what others think...get in ur way..stay positive and god bless u
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18 May 16
@adelynnn if u think the world is cruel to u only then I might be making mistake World and the people around us are very bad...they only love and respect the person with money. I can tell out of experience
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18 May 16
@gurpreetaulakh Hey! Actually I don't think that the world have been cruel to me ... in fact I think God have been very kind and merciful to me ... my life could be much worse than this! I think the fact that I'm able to sit here, have access to the internet and have sufficient education to be able to churn this out - I think I'm very blessed already :)
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18 May 16
Thank you so much for your kind words!
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@Lolaze (5093)
• St. Louis, Missouri
18 May 16
Way to go on speaking out! Did you know May is mental health awareness month?
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18 May 16
Yes definitely! Breaking the silence have been something on my heart for quite awhile but I guess I haven't really been brave enough to do it so kudos to you and your page!! :)
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21 May 16
@enlightenedpsych2 Yes definitely, step by step, day by day, the stigma is gradually being broken! Someday, I hope that mental illnesses become a normal conversation topic, instead of having people to be called brave for talking about it!
@MGjhaud (23171)
• Philippines
17 May 16
whats important is youre helping yourself and others to still think positive. keep doing it.. take care.
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18 May 16
Thank you so much for the lovely encouragement!
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• Surrey, British Columbia
18 May 16
all we need is think positive always and faith in God
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18 May 16
Yes. Thankful for the almighty Father in Heaven. God bless you!
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
17 May 16
that is true, share your thoughts, that is the right thing to do
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18 May 16
Yes hoping that I'll slowly garner the courage to do it more and more!
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17 May 16
Go your own way and let others say
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