Decisions, decisions
By Maria
@MEAngle (237)
May 17, 2016 9:56am CST
Many of my friends don't really ask me much about my love life, and I appreciate that. But soon, I know that I'll have to come out and tell them the truth about both my sexuality and the girl that I know I'll be spending the rest of my life with, if all goes well.
I just don't know how to come out with it in a way that will result in no hate. My mother is openly opposing of gay and lesbian couples, and I'm seen as the one in the family with so many expectations. My sisters don't know yet, but have made it clear that no matter what, they'll love me for who I am.
I'm in between a rock and a hard place here.
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5 responses
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
17 May 16
It is always a hard choice when it comes to telling your family about your sexuality, especially when you know how they feel about it.
Yet, you never know what to expect because in alot of cases family always change the way people see things.
At least that is how i hope it goes. If family can't open your eyes about the world, then who will?
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@kellyr634 (416)
• United States
25 May 16
You are in a difficult situation, but you have to be true to yourself.
@jaboUK (64360)
• United Kingdom
18 May 16
@MEAngle I can understand that, but you never know - your mother may have worked it out for herself.
I have a friend whose son is gay, and he agonised and agonised about how to tell her, and when he eventually plucked up the courage she just said - "that's ok, I've known for years."
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@jaboUK (64360)
• United Kingdom
8 Jun 16
@enlightenedpsych2 It would be great if all parents were so accepting.
