My friend doesn´t understand diabetes.

@marguicha (230365)
Chile
May 17, 2016 3:30pm CST
Every Tuesday, I have a couple for tea. They are a lovely couple and I have been on vacations with them twice to Cancún. Everything would be perfect except because my male friend is stubborn. He has diabetes and both his wife and I explain to him that he should not have jam on his bread. Yet even if there are all sorts of delicious things to eat, he will only have bread with jam. He explains to us that he is ok as he is taking the pills that manage the problem. And when a person with a university degree says something like that, You only want to spank him on the butt. Except that he is 80 years old. So I accept it. He is of age. I hope the picture shows: my friends
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@Jdaw1985 (4025)
• Fayetteville, North Carolina
17 May 16
That is a great picture of your friends. You might have a talk with his wife to tell the doctor next time he goes what he is eatting just in case. I know some people are fine with just eatting jam.
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@marguicha (230365)
• Chile
17 May 16
His wife has done all she can do
@marguicha (230365)
• Chile
18 May 16
@Jdaw1985 Nope. He says he doesn´t have diabetes because when the doctors check it once in a while after taking his pills, he has it almost under control.
@Jdaw1985 (4025)
• Fayetteville, North Carolina
18 May 16
@marguicha Oh no sorry to hear that. does he check his sugar every day?
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@ElicBxn (64177)
• United States
17 Jun 16
maybe you can start putting low sugar jam in your pot?
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@ElicBxn (64177)
• United States
24 Jul 16
@marguicha Honestly, when someone is 80, they probably feel that they don't have that much longer to live, they might as well enjoy what they have...
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@marguicha (230365)
• Chile
24 Jul 16
@ElicBxn True. That why I scold yet I place jam on the table.
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@marguicha (230365)
• Chile
24 Jul 16
He doesn´t like low sugar jam. I have tried Stevia and other sugar substitutes and he feels I´m cheating.
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@buenavida (9984)
• Sweden
23 Jul 16
Maybe he would like bread, baked with almond flour or coconut flour.. I am sure that you, marguicha know how to bake something like that That would diminish the Glycemic Index in his meal..
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@marguicha (230365)
• Chile
24 Jul 16
I´ll check that. But I have tried other thngs, even jams made with Stevia and other no sugar ingredients and he won´t havem.
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@buenavida (9984)
• Sweden
24 Jul 16
@marguicha Would he like honey, instegade of sugar? He might need some good bacteria, like the ones in sauerkraut or other fermented veggies..?? He could get rid of sugar cravings that way.. A. Vogel has Molkosan with good bacteria and it could be mixed with some juice.. Well, the thing is to get him to drink it
@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
18 May 16
maybe he just wants to enjoy life. how long has he been a diabetic?
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@marguicha (230365)
• Chile
19 May 16
Years. Several years.
@marlina (154103)
• Canada
18 May 16
Maybe he has already counted it in his daily plan.
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@marguicha (230365)
• Chile
18 May 16
Anyway there´s nothing I can do
@paigea (36143)
• Canada
14 Jun 16
I have an elderly relative who will say she can't have one thing due to her diabetes and then will have a big serving of dessert. I wish she would be more sensible about it but it is up to her.
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@marguicha (230365)
• Chile
24 Jul 16
He does drink his tea with a sugar substitute. And then he eats all the jam.
@paigea (36143)
• Canada
25 Jul 16
@marguicha that sounds similar to my aunt.
• United States
17 May 16
Oh dear..so sorry he will not listen to reason. Yes he thinks it is fine even because he is taking the pill for it. I hope that I would not eat too much jam also..I feel fortunate so far not to have that terrible disease..diabetes.
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@marguicha (230365)
• Chile
17 May 16
I place the jam on a very small pot.
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
17 May 16
What a wonderful photo there.Some time people will not accept this.He is at the age and I feel the same way.I am going to eat what I like. I am not a diabete but a little jam is not going to hurt him.Give him space.
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@marguicha (230365)
• Chile
17 May 16
I do. But I worry.
@Tampa_girl7 (54741)
• United States
17 May 16
They look like a lovely couple.
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@marguicha (230365)
• Chile
18 May 16
They are. There are two of my best friends.